Is this pic strange?

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Many years ago, after I first met my husband he went holiday to Ibiza with a group of friends. One of the pics taken at that time was with his female hometown friend and he was standing with her puting his hand on her waist. Is this anything strange?

i'm sorry but pahahahahaha. classic

WTF & - Op. Did you also start the thread regarding DHs having female friends on FB! What is going on here? Are you concerned your DH is cheating or are you just very insecure/paranoid?

I think if he isn't cheating now.... Then he will! And prob soon

You need some help.

If you are deleting old photos from many years ago and telling your H to tell his friend to take down her photos you have a problem. You are being exceptionally controlling.

If a woman came on her saying her H was deleting very old pictures and telling her to tell other people to take pictures down from FB she would be told her H was completely unreasonable and asked if he was like this in other areas of their relationship.

She will still have the photos. They will still have the memories of what ever was or wasn't between them.

You need to get help for your problems otherwise he will one day rightly get fed up of being treated like this and leave you.

Just cheered myself up reading this thread.....had been a shite day......read this and have actually belly laughed out loud.......thankyou all. Sorry to laugh op....I hope you're feeling less....anxious :)

Awww, I loved this thread too- I actually guffawed. Thank you OP, you've actually made my weekend (it has indeed been that shit). Best of luck with everything.

You should read the other one I saw if you like this one

Sorry Op

I've posted on the OPs threads before under this name and a previous one (her names, not mine).

OP, you have posted about similar scenarios involving your husband and your obviously extreme anxiety. I'm going to do you the credit of assuming that this is all for real. Please, please get some help. Looking for various non existent ways in which your poor husband has misbehaved in some way is going to cause terrible harm to your marriage. It really can't go on and I hate to see you back with another "problem".

I hope I haven't overstepped the mark with you OP, but I hate to see anyone in your position.

You shouldnt be nosing through his facebook and deleting photos.

I can't decipher anything else from this thread

HeySoulSister, why made you think so?

Correction: what made you think so?

Because no person can live with that level of scruitiny and doubt on them forever.

If you dont seek some help about your anxiety you may well lose him.

Really is this all you have to worry about?

IKnewHouseworkWasDangerous, is your comment the answer to my question for HeySoulSister?

123bucklemyshoes, yes this is all I have to worry about for now.

I thought I forgot this pic issue until I saw the comment by HeySoulSister. Is she saying my husband will cheat on me soon? With who?

Could you be more precise about the waist/hip location thing pls?

It was the right hand side.

Baaaaad.....very very baaaaaaadddddd ;)

Are you being serious?

I think you have a big problem with jealousy and insecurity and this is an issue that you need to address, rather than trying to read more into an innocent photo from years ago. You'll drive yourself mad with this. Go and talk to your GP and get a referral for some counselling. A big part of a loving relationship is trust, and if you don't trust him, your marriage will be at risk.

Well today I told me husband I'm not happy with him taking photos putting his arm around his female friend's hip and he said he wont take any photos with other than me.