Is this pic strange?

[wherewouldyoulive]

Many years ago, after I first met my husband he went holiday to Ibiza with a group of friends. One of the pics taken at that time was with his female hometown friend and he was standing with her puting his hand on her waist. Is this anything strange?

I think soul sister means you may drive him away.

Wherewouldyou, that's not normal behaviour on your behalf. You need to see that.

Obviously you should LTB immediately if he dared to put his arm round his friends waist several years ago.

"It was the right hand side."

Oh

My

God

You should have put that in your first post.

I can imagine how devastated you must feel. If only it had been on the left side.

Oh, btw OP, I feel very sorry for your husband. Because you are being ridiculous.

Yep that was my answer to the question you asked heysoulsister

LovelyMarchHare what do you mean by this?

I think my post was clear enough actually.

Maybe you should get your husband to join here so we can have a word with him.

I'm going to see a private counsellor tomorrow or Tuesday. I have always believed he wont cheat on me because his pareants are still happy being together for over 40 years. But when I saw the pic I was unhappy.

Good move to see a counsellor.

I'm sure they will point you in the right direction.

Maybe I will just have to trust him. There's nothing I can do about it.

It was 7 years ago by the way.

yes,i think you will drive him away.....if you aren't already doing so. poor man! is he supposed to live with this?

There's photos of DH and of me hugging friends. Its normal. Its friendly.

You'll drive your DH away if you keep behaving like that.

Telling him who he can have a photo taken with.
Telling him to delete her photos.
Questioning an innocent photo from 7 years ago.

Stop it.

OP I really hope the counselling will help. It sounds like you are a bit anxious and have a tendency to over analyse.

One of two of the responses on here have made tea come down my nose and after a weekend so poo that I watched X Factor and enjoyed it, I am very grateful.

Gruntfuttock, why right hand side is ok and left hand side isnt? I'm looking at the photo again and his hand was where the bone starts which is just below waist.

stop looking at the photo.....you must know the left side/right side thing was a JOKE!!!

I wish I could show you the pic but the counsellor will see it.

Oh really? I didnt know it was a joke. Thank you for letting me know. I tend to believe as it says.

OP.. you need to seek some professional help. You don't read OK to me.

mammadiggingdeep it may be best not to add fuel to the fire with this one. Either the OP is winding us up or she has very consistent issues with her husband. Issues that stem from her anxiety and not anything that he has actually done. If it is real then I think she needs as much help as she can get and probably in real life rather than on MN.

OP I think that I have previously suggested that you mention your anxiety before asking about another problem. If these are real situations then it would maybe help to stop all the "this can't be real" posts.

Are these threads even helping you OP?

Actually scrap that mamma. I have just read the up to date posts and the OP doesn't seem remotely upset with the posts which ridicule her slightly. I seem to be annoyed on her behalf for no good reason.

If this is all you have to worry about then you should count your blessings and get on with your life....