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Is this pic strange?

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wherewouldyoulive · 01/09/2013 13:06

Many years ago, after I first met my husband he went holiday to Ibiza with a group of friends. One of the pics taken at that time was with his female hometown friend and he was standing with her puting his hand on her waist. Is this anything strange?

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wherewouldyoulive · 01/09/2013 13:38

Yea this is the only issue.

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Vatta · 01/09/2013 13:40

OP, I really don't think this is an issue. It's totally normal. Not sure why you find anything odd about it to be honest.

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wherewouldyoulive · 01/09/2013 14:10

Yes this pic was on his facebook. Actually the pic was very small and low quality so I deleted it the other day when I logged on his account. I dont know why it suddenly bothers me at this moment. Maybe I've never taken pictures putting my arm around my male friends. I was going to talk about this pic with my husband if most of you say the pic is strange.

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Portofino · 01/09/2013 14:13

You logged onto his account?

Libertine73 · 01/09/2013 14:16

The w-w-w-w-waist???!!! sorry OP, but this is Soooooooo not an issue in my book.

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IKnewHouseworkWasDangerous · 01/09/2013 14:17

You deleted photos on his account because you have some odd insecutities? If there really sis nothing else going on here, and he gives you no other reason to doubt his word, then you really need to get some professional help.

AnyFucker · 01/09/2013 14:24

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Libertine73 · 01/09/2013 14:24

Yes, does he know you've been in his account and deleted an old photo??!Shock

fifi669 · 01/09/2013 14:27

OP I'm a pretty jealous person..... But I don't see any issue here. Standard photo pose I think.

HeySoulSister · 01/09/2013 14:28

You have bigger problems than a photo!

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wherewouldyoulive · 01/09/2013 14:28

I go on to his account and upload the pics and delete them too. I dont think it's a problem to edit his photos. He knows that.

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ElaineVintage · 01/09/2013 14:28

Get. A. Grip.

IKnewHouseworkWasDangerous · 01/09/2013 14:35

Yes that is a problem!

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wherewouldyoulive · 01/09/2013 14:37

IKnewHousework.. what is?

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Foxred10 · 01/09/2013 14:39

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HeySoulSister · 01/09/2013 14:39

Deleting his stuff, logging onto his account etc.... It's not healthy is it?

TurnOffTheTv · 01/09/2013 14:40

I'm really sorry but you sound BONKERS. I can't even wrap my head around what you are trying to say. How many years is since he touched her waist? And would you honestly ask him about it?

AnyFucker · 01/09/2013 14:40

advance search is every respondent's friend here

TurnOffTheTv · 01/09/2013 14:44

GrinAnyFucker. Some fab posts in the search history!

IKnewHouseworkWasDangerous · 01/09/2013 14:46

If what you say is real then it is a problem to be concerned that your dh has, in the past, met people, some of whom may have been female.

It is a problem that you are upset by an innocent group photo.

It is a problem that you are this anxious

It is a problem that you are editing HIS account without his say so. The clue being it is HIS account

Foxred10 · 01/09/2013 14:46

AF I am now TOTALLY speechless!! ShockShockShockShockShock

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