Juliette - no, I met Derby in person from an expat evening a few weeks ago. I got chatting to her, we had a quick snog, I gave her my number (business card, I always forget to take a pen and it's just easier that way) and forgot about her after a few days. She got back in touch last week. These things happen.
There was lots of chemistry back then but I was focused on CheshireCat. There was even more chemistry when I saw her the other night. As I said, she seems to give off a vibe of wanting to be dominated.
And on that topic, I got into a flame war on a FB post yesterday with a bloke who is a Game Player - as in, Pick up artist, has read all the books about how to assert his natural dominance over women, accused me of being an emasculated male for not thinking men were inherently superior. It was really weird, the stuff he was quoting was actually sounding a bit like Mein Kampf, or Nietzche, trying to persuade the man who bought the book that they were now superior to other normal men because they had the tricks to pick up women, and of course superior to women because they were men.
He was incredibly patronising, and when I pointed out the logical errors in his posts, and the signs he was obviously a deeply unhappy individual who needed to feel superior because of his numerous failings, he went back and edited all his posts to remove the errors and tried to make out I was a lunatic. Odd man. Ah well.