Flipper - I don't think it's doing the dirty on the mermaid, she's still seeing two other guys as far as I know - we haven't talked about it as, I suppose, for both of us having that discussion leads to a discussion about exclusivity or non-exclusivity, which does seem kind of ridiculous given the distance.
She did talk about possibly spending some time teaching in Europe instead of the US - she met some friends of mine here who had done the same thing - but she then said she wouldn't move here, she'd do Sweden or Norway. Which led me to think either she wants me to persuade her to try here, which I can't do given that we've seen each other once in the last three years, we don't know what's going on and I'm not sure how long I'd be here anyway. Or possibly she doesn't get the fact that Norway isn't just a quick hop away from hungary and it would be a long distance thing anyway.
There are events happening, it's just everything seems to be written in hungarian as it's a national hungarian holiday. I'll try and find more out I guess.
The Mermaid is lovely, sweet, and funny, but we haven't talked about what's going on between us, apart from liking each other and missing each other, because the distance is just so stupidly big we have to arrange our skype calls either late night for her, early morning for me or during her lunchbreak, and 9 pm for me. I think I'm going to have to tell her we're going to have to reduce the skype calls because if they continue I'm going to start really liking her a huge amount and the distance can't work. So we can be long distance friends with benefits or something, which itself will be crap because there's more than just 'friends' there..
I really do like her a lot. More than like her. But I'll only get to see her maybe 8 times a year. And the rest of the time I'd be living like a monk. I really don't want to end up in that situation, if only because of the haircut.