Wading in on the DFU discussion.. That there is a 'mighty fine' kitchen, and also, he def is a silver fox. Any more interest since the profile update?
Djang fingers crossed he just left himself signed in. I remember once coming back to my POF account to a series of messages from a guy who had slowly but surely started to have his own little mental breakdown, he thought I was ignoring him.
On the self esteem front, I heard something like 'we accept what we think we are worth'. Cannot remember who said it, but it stuck with me. Many, not all, of us seem to have had some dickheads people in our lives that affected our self worth, so it's hardly surpirsing. But how does one get to the place of self belief? Was speaking to a friend who was also married to a sociopath (my ex's best friend acutally), and her new saying in life is, I have already had the 'no', now I am going for the 'yes'. I like it. Anyway, goodnight lovely people of MN dating thread, hope the woo is still alive and well for all the daters. 