WFF sounds like a good choice, always good to sleep on these decisions! I think it sometimes takes a while to reflect on and work out why a date wasn't great.
Lorna have fun with the d**r. Maybe he'll surprise you with his docker-like heterosexual-ness!
OWW that's a big step up, will your mum behave in the car? Alpha sounds wonderfully grown up, 
and 
for you.
48 you know what they say re. absence, glad it's working for you! How long now until he's home?
I've been texting the postie, but it's all a bit laboured and dull. I think he's probably a really nice guy but I'm beginning to wonder if he doesn't have that much to say for himself... Will probably persevere for a bit though, in case he's just a bit rubbish at written communication... Cos he is handsome and I am shallow
On the other hand, late night messager was back on POF last night and he is ticking all my written communication boxes so far - witty, interesting, interested in me. Think he may be a d**r though.... Why are they to be avoided??! Oh, and his profile is full of pics of him up mountains, in fancy foreign climes, etc etc.... 