Waves is determined to keep winning now that Acrobat has arrived.

[wavesandsmiles]

So, Acrobat did actually arrive (only just) on the last thread. And he is here and lovely!

Links to previous threads:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/a1670597-So-DH-said

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/1745551-DH-said-DH-left-waves-is-still-being-sick-but-into-the-third-timester

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/relationships/a1801734-Waves-is-winning-Here-comes-the-Acrobat

Agatha, we laugh, because hes so damn pathetic, that you can only just laugh at his lack of substance and all around waste of space he is.

Oh waves, what a despicable excuse for a man he is. Did you say you'd kept copies?? If so, there's your evidence and grounds for divorce right there, no?

Another here at cuntsnakes. It's kind of making me think of that neck snake attitude move

Please stop caring about him, about what he does, or says, or who he shags.

At least you have seen him for his true colours. You were a meal ticket for him and he pretended to love you so that he could have a cushy life. What a cunt. There is something seriously wrong with his wiring, and you keep expecting him to respond normally, but he is not normal.

I can't help but think you are still doing things good for him, such allowing his family to impose on you the day of the birth, so that it will somehow make him see that you are worth him behaving decent towards. By being dignified and the better person, you are creating expectations of him, and time and time again he hurts you.

I think you need to learn not to have any expectations of him at all. When you say you wished he had brought you a card and flowers, it makes me want to cry. Those are the gestures of someone who loves you and cares for you. Waves it is so harsh, but you need to accept that he does neither, and never will, no matter how reasonable you are to him.

Have you registered Caspian yet? Would you consider not putting him on the certificate?

I'm also laughing at the thought of what a cuntsnake looks like. I'm picturing a snake with a vagina for a head!

I think the laughing at the name calling is also that he thinks we might actually care what he calls us/

Oh no, delicate little flowers that we are can't cope with what the big man calls us .

Yes yes to register without his name on and then go and file for divorce.

Or a Cobra with an afro of pubes ...

He probably takes being called an arrogant cock as a compliment, because he is, among other things, actually a bit thick.

Hope you get back in the no-Twunt, new baby, hippy-happy mama zone soon. Because you can handle all this, and without him far better than with him. Protect yourself and your babies

But Pollydon, cunts aren't allowed to have pubes. To please "real men" like twunt they must be hairless & porn ready!!

lol Midwife, he probably thinks all he has to do to get fanny, is touch her and knickers are off.

But if he wants fanny than all he needs to do is look in the mirror, hes the biggest fanny of them all.

I think you're allowed a few tears Waves, and don't feel bad about shedding them.

He has shown his true colours very clearly though - which I think is a good thing in the long-run.

I'm glad the new lodger seems to be fitting in a lot better - and I'm presuming that lodger 2 hasn't made a murmer since lodger 1 left...

He's a Putrid Knob. At the very least, you know for certain and forever what he is. I cannot imagine how badly this further betrayal has hit you, Waves. I am so, so sorry.

On the other hand, I am thrilled to be a Cuntsnake! I loved being a Viper too, and am ineffably proud that I am both. I do so wish you were on the mainland so at least one of us could just pop round and help.

I hope you are having a quiet evening and do try to sleep tonight, waves. Quiet day tomorrow?

waves congratulations on the birth of your beautiful son. Over the last 7 months, you have had constant nausea and vomiting along with repeated hospital admissions, you've endured emotional torture ( I really don't think abuse isn't a strong enough word) from twunt, been deliberately run over by TB, cared for your DCs on your own, got lodgers in (and booted one out) and, despite all this, managed to make ice cream, bake cakes and play a gig whilst in labour. You've then endured 3 days of latent labour and given birth with virtually no pain relief. If that isn't a strong person, I really don't know what is. Although it's obviously incredibly painful, I almost think it's a good thing that twunt is really showing his true colours. You're incredibly vulnerable at the moment and I had visions of him trying to wheedle his way back in by saying how awestruck he was by seeing you give birth and how it's made him see the error of his ways and if you'd please just give him one more chance to prove himself to you ...yawn yawn. If you ever feel yourself being sucked back in, just remind yourself of what he's been saying about your beautiful DCs.
Please just concentrate on your beautiful family and don't waste any more time thinking about that waste of space. I've lurked on the relationships board for about 5 years and I really don't think I've come across anyone quite as fucked up and twisted as twunt.
What shines through all your posts is what a loving, warm and genuine person you are. If you lived anywhere on the mainland, you'd have been beseiged by online aunties offering to babysit/cook/clean/whatever.
Ever since your 1st post, I've checked in on you every day and I know I'm not alone. You have such a huge amount of love and support out here for you. Look after yourself and your beautiful family xxx

After a few teary moments, I'm a bit more calm this evening. My lovely new lodger came down for an hour and a half and we had a glass of to wet Caspian's head, played with the DCs and she had lots and lots of newborn cuddles. I've just finished feeding caspian and it was a little less ouchy, and he is now propped up against my legs having the sweetest hiccups. He also seems to be more awake and wriggly. I love him so much!

I have arranged for DS 1 and DD to go to a friends tomorrow so I can have a day of just feeding and changing caspian, and trying to sleep when he does. So even if I have a bad night, at least I know I have a quiet day ahead.

Oh, I had to smile earlier when DD asked why I was crying and I sobbed about balloons and she said " but mummy you've got caspian. He's a lot better than a balloon". A truer word was never spoken.

I think I must be having a much better evening than twunt. Spread out on the sofa whilst caspian is feeding, feeling so proud that he is so good at it. Just being a mum

Waves, that's beautiful. Am off to bed but have a 5 year old who still doesn't sleep through so will check on you through the night xx

Waves, congratulations on Caspian. You are doing amazingly well in what are very very early days. Getting breast feeding going is ouchy and exhausting and you sound like its going great- a massive achievement in itself. Please be as kind to yourself as you can and remember this too will pass, you have come though what would crush many people already. These next couple of weeks will be the toughest ones but you've got the right approach focussing on feeding and changing nappies. Your future is so bright and you have got so many happy memories ahead with your lovely family. I believe that good things come to good people and you are long overdue lots of food luck x

What a lovely thing for DD to say! You have such lovely children Waves - I'm sure that Caspian will grow up like his sister and brother!

With a family like that around him, Caspian will turn out just fine and completely unlike his sperm donor.

I'm going to have to go out and find a suitable badge for my promotion to official cuntsnake - it's great to know that we MNers have collectively got on the nerves of someone so very, very deserving of the scorn we pour.

Right, I think I am going to risk going to bed. I have a sleeping baby, who I will try to get to feed again on my rock-hard boulders, then see what happens overnight. Thinking the next 48 hours will be tricky, but it is to be expected at this stage. At least I have a day of nothing-much-to-do tomorrow.

(Apparently, having re-read one of the text essays twunt sent last night, I repeatedly fail to mention my shortcomings to you all, and his good points, because if I did my tale of woe would crumble. And no one feels sorry for him which isn't fair. To be honest, I think I have been very open with the fact I am ashamed of how crotchety and harsh I was back in early pregnancy, but also acknowledge that this is normal due to hormones, and it was all compounded by the HG. I have also stated how supportive he was during labour etc. Haven't I?) Anyway, those thoughts are being boxed away. I am doing nothing tomorrow other than getting through the day, and hopefully sleeping a bit!

Dear Mr Cuntface
There is nothing. nothing that Waves could say about what she did or didn't do or what you did or didn't do that would make your behaviour remotely acceptable. Ever.

The facts speak for themselves. Try to be a little more honest with yourself.

Betty

Is there anyone who could design a team logo?

Do you think that MN could design a cuntsnake emoticon? What would that even look like? You could have multiple ones, like Medusa.

I wont speak for everyone, but i give no sympathy to anyone, who is rude, entitled, whinging, nasty to a pregnant woman, who cheats, reseaches abortions for a planned child, because he is more worried about getting leg over, allows his children to treat his pregnant wife like shit, plays stupid mind games.

So if he has good points then they are well hidden behind his shitty behaviour, attitude and his disgusting attitude to women.

Grow up twunt, no one is perfect, but atleast waves admits she isnt, and for that she gets respect, you are still whining about yourself, well get it over it idiot.

Awww, it's not fair is it??! Diddums.

Do you know what's not fair? Bullying your wife. Encouraging your children to be disrespectful. Cheating on your wife. Being unsupportive through a really hard pregnancy. Need I go on?

You are one of the most amazing women I have met on line.

You constantly give.

Your love for your DC shines through.

Your love for your twat of a H also does. Your pain at his actions is clear to all who read what you write.

Your H can't accept that he is wrong because that means looking deeper and closer at himself. Not many people can do that and he really wouldn't like what he saw if he did.

So it is easier to blame you.

Oh no fellow cunt snakes - we forgot - this is all about twunt & how he feels! Poor poor baby!

Sleep well Waves & please please ignore him. He can't face himself so is on the attack. It's pathetic really isn't it?

1. Why are you reading e-mails? What happened to the separate e-mail folder? What happened to no contact?

1. I feel very sorry for cunttwunt. I cannot imagine how such an emotionally stunted individual functions on a daily basis. (actually, that's not true - I know that he functions by lies, manipulation, gas lighting, cruelty and doing his best to feel better about himself by sucking power from others around him).

1. I cannot even believe that he is still reading this, and then e-mailing you to have a moan about how he is maligned on here (poor lamb). Does he have no boundaries whatsoever?

1. Just focus on your lovely family of 4. They sound wonderful. So does your new lodger.

1. I refer you to point 1. Stop reading texts, e-mails and everything else. This is such a special cuddly time for you, Caspian, his older siblings and his MN Aunties that you just need to babymoon. Nothing else.