Dating thread 58 everyone welcome

[Kirstywirsty]

The Rules

1. Develop a thick skin;
2. Do not invest emotionally too soon;
3. It's all BS until it actually happens;
4. Trust your gut instinct;
5. People vanishing, lying and being generally weird to you are not your fault
6. You are the prize - they should be trying to impress you
7. If it's not fun, stop
8. loo update is mandatory

I remember being so full of admiration for Kirsty when she was in a similar situation a couple of months back and she told him to get lost. You can be my role model here K! What is it with all these "returners"? My friend coming round tonight is a bloke so will have no time for yearnycrap and will be a safe person to look after my phone - good tip Flipper and glad you've made it onto the normal phone. Erm, congratulations.

Mum is good thanks OWW Just got back from there, her partner went out for lunch with his kids, he needed a break.

Do not reply. You have moved on The fucker had his chance.

I am spending 4/5 nights a week now with Mr R&R almost living together

Scotland round 2 on Friday

Bras are the work of the devil in this heat. Had to get that off my chest. Literally.

OWW thanks!!

I thought 3DD was seeing someone .. Have I missed something??

I have agreed to FoF's offer to take me to dinner when I get back from Crete .. 2 weeks today

Hi to everyone .. It usa gorgeous day here in Glasgow hope it is with you too

Btw .. I was getting my nails done and the woman next to me had met a guy online dating 4 weeks ago and they are booked to go to Majorca together in a fortnight!!!

there is nothing nicer than coming home & whipping your bra off. i'm on the roof terrace in my pants just texted nameless my first ever unsolicited boob-shot, as he is off to his parents for a week & should therefore have a photographic representation of my tits me to remember me by....

Hope nameless's mum doesn't see his texts snape

i think it's always useful to break the ice with ones prospective parents-in-law by them catching an eyeful of ones mammaries before a formal introduction... ('aah! you must be snape! cracking tits, well done, son!')

Snape .

Have a great holiday Kirsty.

Kin, hugs back.

As far as I'm aware, Kirsty, he is. I'm not interested in him as a dating prospect (so should probably move him off this thread), I was just annoyed that I was being treated as a potential shag, when I clearly wasn't one. I found that insulting.

Does that mean it will be over a month since you saw FoF?

I'm on the sofa (literally) in my bikini. I got too hot outside. I rarely have reason to celebrate being small of boob, but not having to wear constricting underwear in hot weather is a definite bonus.

Hey flipper I went for lunch with him on 24th June .. Will be date 2 on 27th July .. Just bad timing with holidays

But it sounds like you're both keen to see each other again, still? This is a good sign, I reckon.

Yes .. He seems like a decent bloke .. He is fit , successful sociable and has a great sense of humour ..

Afternoon all

I gave it online dating another shot and have been seeing someone for a few weeks. He ended coming to mine last night after a work do and while pissed asking if we can be exclusive. I said I would speak yo him when sobered up

He was so embarrassed. Hes taking me to the cinema tonight. I'm happy and hes normal!

I actually found a normal. He lives a 10/15 minute walk from me as well and we have seen each other in our local pub a couple of times.

I haven't told anyone I'm seeing someone as it seems to fuck up when I do

You lot are the only ones who know

i really like being let in on secrets! i'm glad it's going well for you SP

SP normal sounds good to me.

Kin thank you for saying so and I happen to agree, Dutchie is lucky to have me

Flipper good too see you've been upgraded, it's funny how something like that can really grate

Kirsty I have high hopes for you and FoF

Rose hello

Agree, bras are not to be worn in the heat. I am sitting here in a cotton pj shorts combo as the equivalent of a summer onesie.

I'm just grateful for normal

Think this will be my last OD experience. If it doesn't work out so be it but I wont be ODing ever again. Its been an ordeal

SP good to hear that It's just between us thread folk and a couple of random extras

I wanted to tell someone but didn't want to tell anyone in RL.

I think it makes it easier no one knowing so I don't have anyone questioning or wanting to know details.

Once I know exactly whats happening then I will share. Hes told people about me but understands why I haven't

Hey sp it's good to share and safe here...

Hope oww ok and hanging in there. Am sitting on phone a bit too...

Lots of happiness on the thread here too which is lovely.

Date was again friendly and chatty and fun but really not sure... 3 +hours went pretty quickly but life and kids and events will stop a 3rd date for a while.. We'll see.

Soothing my distress at not being amongst the hot weather bra-less (that ain't ever gonna happen) by knocking back a homemade twinkle - cheers everybody.

braless here too (and same outfit i have been wearing for past 3 days)

glad i don't live with a hot fellah