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dp just blew up at me again and im terrified.

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tyedye · 31/05/2006 09:44

Im in trouble again and i want to leave but i cant,i cant protect myself or my kids from it,all verbal so far,feel so bad ive stated cutting myself again.

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Lemmingswife · 23/06/2006 12:42

Been worrying about you, tyedye. Have sent you a text message.
Really hope you are ok.

glitterfairy · 24/06/2006 17:33

Hope you are ok tyedye

Lemmingswife · 24/06/2006 17:52

Hope all is calm, tyedye.

tyedye · 24/06/2006 17:56

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tyedye · 24/06/2006 17:58

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Lemmingswife · 24/06/2006 18:00

Hope he doesn't give you a hard time, tyedye.
How have the last couple of days been?

tyedye · 24/06/2006 18:19

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Lemmingswife · 24/06/2006 18:29

He jumps down your childrens throats all the time?

tyedye · 24/06/2006 19:24

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Lemmingswife · 24/06/2006 19:41

He sounds a complete nightmare, tyedye.
Have you got back in touch with womans aid?
My HV has helped me loads & been a great support.
I don't know how old your children are, but could you maybe have a word with your HV?

glitterfairy · 24/06/2006 22:38

TYedye are you still packing?

Lemmingswife · 24/06/2006 22:40

Are you planning to leave, tyedye?

Blu · 24/06/2006 23:05

Tyedye - this sounds really horrible. Of course you feel murderous that he treats your children that way.
Don't sit there feeling murderous, don't even murder him, take yourself off on Monday to Women' Aid and see what you can do to stop your children, and you, having to endure this.
Or have you another plan that you are considering? What is your best chance of getting away?

Lemmingswife · 25/06/2006 08:58

Hi tyedye, I received your mail last night. I liked the little greeting card thingy - very amusing!
Feel free to text me today if you like.
I am very concerned that you & your poor children are having to suffer in this way. It seems to be happening more often than not from what I can make out from your thread & must be unbearable.
Blu is right, you need to find a way of getting out & protecting your childern & yourself.
Have you spoken to someone at womans aid yet?
I know how hard this is.
Thinking of you.x

tyedye · 25/06/2006 11:16

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Lemmingswife · 25/06/2006 11:21

Well done for being so pro-active, tyedye.
You are doing the right thing, as you & your children cannot continue to live in such fear.
I know it is all very very horrible to have to think down the drastic road of seperation, as I am struggling myself, but you have to weigh it all up & realise that even though it will be very hard, it will lead to a calmer & happier life for you.
Am thinking of you, tyedye.x

tyedye · 25/06/2006 11:22

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glitterfairy · 25/06/2006 11:25

Yes but even though it gets worse sometimes with their behaviour it is so much better for you and your family, I promise.

Keep strong tyedye.

Lemmingswife · 25/06/2006 11:27

The hardest! I thought I would never be strong enough to get to this stage & now here I am, so I guess I will get through this, but it is the toughest thing I have ever done.
Keep strong, tyedye.x

Blu · 25/06/2006 12:29

tydye - well done, i'm really plesaed you are sorting out your house and wil get help from the CAB. Good luck.

tyedye · 25/06/2006 16:52

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Lemmingswife · 25/06/2006 17:10

Received your mail, tyedye & have mailed you back.

tyedye · 27/06/2006 10:29

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Lemmingswife · 27/06/2006 15:46

How did you get on with the agents, tyedye?

tyedye · 27/06/2006 17:18

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