Cellophane. I am offended by your comments. Does that make them offensive?
I'm very happy to send the entire thread of PMs between me and watch to anyone who asks, as a PM. Normally I wouldn't, of course, as they're meant to be private, but not on here as they're quite long and the thread doesn't really need derailing any more than it has been.
Velvet, what I said was that photos with lots of cleavage showing tend to put me off someone. In the same way photos of horses also put me off. I also said men will draw conclusions, rightly or wrongly about the person, and one can choose to advertise them self with whatever photos they choose, but be aware of how they will rightly or wrongly be seen.
It wasn't a dig at you, velvet. As I said, I don't remember what photos you have on your profile. I vaguely remember big hair, that's all. Given your response I'm assuming you do have, or did have, several low-cut top photos on your profile, fine, your call.
But given that I've pointed out that some men will draw certain inferences from that, and given that you keep complaining you only attract men after one thing, never a second date, all of whom are 'below' you in some way, then do you think I may actually have a point?
This is not an attack. You can wear whatever you want. Men should not make judgements based on what you wear. But the fact is, they will. And you're intelligent enough to understand that, surely.
No need to shoot the messenger.