Sorry Cellophane I didn't realise you disliked me so much. And nor do I particularly care.
I don't control how other people post, how welcoming they are, whether they talk about sex or not. I generally stick up for people who are being attacked by others, unless they were the ones who started the attack and then couldn't just move on when everyone else was trying to. I may come across as arrogant, or confident, but I'm asking people's advice all the time and value it.
And if anyone gets ignored, they should ask the question again. It's a web-forum, not tea at the vicars. Sometimes people get overlooked and they should say something again. Unless you're going to be insulting and patronising, in which case just shut up.
I don't think anyone was telling anyone else where they were going wrong. Offering constructive criticism, possibly, but I've learned not to do that because people can take offence.
Personally I liked hearing other men's opinions too but they have other things going on in their lives, I believe.
Also I wasn't aware I had hens.