A happy update from TIL

[TisILeclerc]

She and the children are where they need to be now and she is very grateful for all the support and encouragement she has received. I hope very much that she will return here but for now she?s intending to lie a little bit low.

Please just be sensitive to the fact that this is a huge, life changing decision for her and I think she would like it toned down a bit wrt pompoms and congratulations. I hope very much that this will change as the days pass and she becomes accustomed to the incredulous joy of freedom. She is already sounding positive about life where she is right now.

This time they really are ?safe? in the way that everybody hoped previously.

NB I have not used any names in this for a reason. Please be aware of security as she is understandably very worried about him locating her

Thank God.

Fingers crossed this is about who I think it is.

Well done, and best of luck for the future. I'm sure the next few weeks and months will have their challenges, but I hope that you (and your DCs) will also be able to enjoy the freedom which you have given yourself and them.

I'm just absolutely in awe of your strength and courage.

Thanks for the info Tis. Good to hear.

Good for her. I have so much admiration for her strength.

Peonies it most certainly is about who you think it is

Tis

My goodness, best wishes to her.

This has made my day. She has a long journey ahead of her, but this was the biggest step. What a woman!

No pompoms but I have a tear in my eye.

As I think will a lot who have been in that situation in the past.

Was wondering if today would be the day. Thanks for the update.

Delighted to hear it - she has been in my thoughts today (more than usual that is)

Thanks for the update Tis.

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Thanks so much for the update Tis. Very pleased and relieved.

The support and wisdom on the thread has been amazing. So much insight.

First day of the rest of her life.

She has been on my mind today too Herrena. More than usual!

Thank you for the update,

Please pass on a big squeeze to all if you can.

A very quiet yay from here. As a long-time lurker on her threads I am thrilled to hear she has made such a monumental step. I hope she gets the help, support and space she needs to face each day as her life starts to change.

Good news.

What courage, what amazing courage. You absolutely did the right thing (and thank you TIL for duly updating us).

Wishing you lots of strength and luck.

can I send you a hug and a kiss?

No pom poms, just a huge sigh of relief. Thinking of you, and hoping you soon start to experience relief and happiness at the freedom to have those dress up teas whenever you want.

Thank goodness. So relieved.
And well done.

Marvellous

Another long time lurker - so relieved to hear this update.

Today is the first day of the rest of her life

She has had to overcome so many and such deep-seated mental hurdles that this really is an amazing achievement. I wish her and her children the anxiety-free life that they deserve.