Erm, since when does he have ANY say about what happens to your body?! It is absolutely none of his business what you wear to sleep in. he doesn't get to demand that he sleeps next to a sexy, naked body. If he's that pathetic and can only see you as some sort of object to facilitate what helikes, regardless of your needs and wants, then he should get oneof those realistic sex dolls, FFS.
Why is it so important that he needs to be made to feel sexy, anyway? And why does he need to feel sexy when you're sleeping? He's an adult, isn't he?! Sulking because he doesn't get to dictate how you sleep?! Yeah, like that's the turn-on of the year! The only compromise required is that he stops being such a twat that treats you like an object that exists solely to please him.
Oh, and just because one other poster's partner likes her to sleep naked, doesn't mean lots of other men are the same as yours. And her bloke doesn't get the arse about her wearing pjs, either.
That a man would demand this makes me think of the T word (bridges, goats, etc.), because it's so outlandishly selfish and sexist that I struggle to believe someone would behave like it.
Or, more importantly, that you would entertain such crap.