To be a weeny bit suspicious of DP going to work today?

[TallDwarf]

DP owns his own company along with his business partner. He does sometimes work weekends but its always from home, today he has gone in to work in one of their popular city locations. It was a last minute plan that he announced on Friday. He said he needed a business meeting with his partner, but they're emailing each other every day and see each other at least once a week at work anyway so seemed a bit weird to give up a weekend day for this.

I've emailed him a couple of times this morning but not got a reply, but have had a text from him.

Am I reading too much in to nothing here? Just seems weird to go to work on a Sunday, text me but not read or reply to emails...?

I hope she is ok.

OP, I don't think you're crazy. I know how you feel. You go to crazy detective lengths to find something out. It completely takes over.

I'm not saying you're doing the right thing - I just know how you feel and you're not "crazy".

A lot of you are taking the wig thing out of hand - she said she wears wigs all the time, so it's just a different one he won't recognise.

I hope you're ok, do come back for support either way x x

Oh and as for the wig thing my step brothers mother used to wear them all the time I dont think its crazy.

Good luck op- hope you are ok x

Wining and dining a client on a Sunday?

Too late for advice I guess. Good luck OP.

Not sure why people are being hard on the OP. Sometimes you just need an answer, and men who are manipulative will blame you (or, her, in this case) for any perceived slight until the cows come home. She won't be able to get answers from him, and if she's bold enough to do this, good for her.

Again, good luck OP.

OP, if you regularly wear wigs then won't your dh recognise you with this particular wig on? You would need to drastically alter your clothes, the way you walk etc for him not to recognise you..

Good luck. I hope your suspiciaons are unfounded.

Please do come back and update us, if only to tell some sceptics "I told you so"

Good lunch

Luck even

Good luck x

I don't know why people are finding op's wig thing so strange. Quick search tells me she also owns a fancy dress condom wrapper suit too.

Good luck and take care, will be thinking about you tonight. Please let us know how you are x

Fancy dress condom wrapper suit? Wtf?

I would love to see a pic of a condom wrapper suit.

If I were your DH, and innocent of any wrong doing, if you turned up in disguise, it would just scream of 'I do not trust you'.
Put the wig and glasses back in your bag.

Sounds itchy.

I don't know why people are finding op's wig thing so strange. Quick search tells me she also owns a fancy dress condom wrapper suit too.

Ah, right... That makes it much less strange.

I really hope this goes well. Good luck op i think your very brave for confronting your fears head on.

I hope you come back or have some rl support as some of your previous threads have shown your not in a great place at the minute and have had some very dark times and thoughts in the past. I hope your ok and to remember there's alot of support on here if you need it from some amazing posters

Fakebook ???

Ah, right... That makes it much less strange

Well at least she opted for the wig and glasses rather than the condom suit. .

fakebook

Any news?

I'm lurking hoping the OP is ok and has found he just wanted a night to himself...