To be a weeny bit suspicious of DP going to work today?

[TallDwarf]

DP owns his own company along with his business partner. He does sometimes work weekends but its always from home, today he has gone in to work in one of their popular city locations. It was a last minute plan that he announced on Friday. He said he needed a business meeting with his partner, but they're emailing each other every day and see each other at least once a week at work anyway so seemed a bit weird to give up a weekend day for this.

I've emailed him a couple of times this morning but not got a reply, but have had a text from him.

Am I reading too much in to nothing here? Just seems weird to go to work on a Sunday, text me but not read or reply to emails...?

Good luck op, hope all is ok.

and if he and his business partner are actually brainstorming spreadsheets, laptops in hand with black coffee on tap ?

Would he maybe tell porkies if he wants to get pissed for st Patrick's day? Some men are such cowards and can't just say, look I want to go out with friends and get drunk!
Mind you on second thoughts, she said there is a restaurant booked.... That doesn't sound like drunken fun.

How are you, OP?

Good luck op!

" wearing a condom suit passing out free condoms to hotel guests "

I hope you do / dont find what you are looking for TD. I cant see a good ending to this as either way pretty much all trust is gone.

If he was intending to go for drinks 'on a school night' as its Paddys day then why not just ask or tell TD "Look , I am going for a Paddys day drink with some guys from work , it will be a late one so we are going to do a few hours work beforehand as we wont be in on monday morning as we will be in bed doing smelly farts and moaning that we drank too much" , then fair enough.

If your gut is saying otherwise then there probably is something odd going on .

Good luck OP. X

I hope everything is ok op and that you get some kind of answers from your trip out tonight even though they may not be the answers you want.

I hope OP feels she can come back for support

His behaviour sounds really suspicious. I can't imagine DH vehemently turning down a child-free evening in a hotel with his wife (even in preference to a st Patrick's day piss up - but then he doesn't really do 'nights out' anyway TBF) - wouldn't most busy/stressed parents jump at the chance?

Anyway I'm late to this thread but hope everything's ok :(

Oh my word, feeling anxious on OP's behalf. Hope everything is ok.

Please come back and let us know what happened op. You've had a lot of support here and people are worried about you.

I rather think the OP will be dealing with whatever the situation is right now and too busy to come back and update us as yet.

I'd do exactly the same as you - wig and all. Hope it's not what you suspect!

Op, are you okay? I hate to think of you alone at this moment, when you came on here for support.

Good luck OP

Well I went, saw him strut in with his arm round her waist looking oh so fucking smug. He didn't recognise me till after I slapped him.

I'm home now, MIL has got ds for the night so I plan on getting very drunk and falling asleep crying :( I do appreciate the concern but I don't think I'll come back to this thread. I just need to deal with RL for now :(

oh how awful but good for you. did he say anything? did she know he was married?

I'm so sorry you but instinct was spot on

Take a day or two please know you will receive lots of support here if you choose to return.

meant to say xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Well if you do need support getting through what happened next, you'll get it in spades here.

Sorry it was what you thought :(

I am so sorry that your worst fears were true, but please do come back to this thread as there is support here for you.

Sorry talldwarf
What a twat he is

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