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WarmFuzzyFun · 23/02/2013 17:27

Here it is...

OP posts:
lubeybooby · 28/02/2013 23:22

I would probably send it oww. No idea if that's helpful or not, and I'm well known for my outer calm (not always inner but definitely outer) but I would.

OhWesternWind · 28/02/2013 23:29

I'm going to sleep on it and see what happens tomorrow. But I am going to make my feelings very clear.

lubeybooby · 28/02/2013 23:31

Ok oww. I hope you get a nice peaceful sleep and really hope lm comes good in making it all up to you somehow - [sneaky hug]

JulietteMontague · 28/02/2013 23:34

Western if you send it, do so then I would go icy on his arse. He has to understand you are seriously pissed off. If he wants to go drown his sorrows then rudely sit on fb doesn't want to be part of a team with you, fine but you will not be messed around.

OhWesternWind · 28/02/2013 23:36

Actually I'm going to send it.

He can read it in the morning when he crawls out of his pit.

JulietteMontague · 28/02/2013 23:39

Mercury he had just overdone it on the posing in his profile. All with the same set of clothes and jewellry on Grin

JulietteMontague · 28/02/2013 23:41

The model

mercury7 · 28/02/2013 23:57

the delusional arrogance of a man who thinks women will pay him for no strings sex...nsa sites are overflowing with men who cant give it away!

lubeybooby · 01/03/2013 00:00

he's got a wedding ring on Confused

OhWesternWind · 01/03/2013 00:06

Have texted the fucker, told him I'm pissed off and won't put up with being mucked about, ball's in his court.

OhWesternWind · 01/03/2013 00:07

And I don't feel worried just bloody cross. And sad.

JulietteMontague · 01/03/2013 00:21

Cross is good Western

Lubey I assumed that was a dress ring, along with his mahoosive watch, bracelet and neck chain. I had a good look at the site, most of the men on their saying they are Straight Only are also in the Bi section Hmm

lubeybooby · 01/03/2013 00:31

Why put it on the wedding finger though? And it's in his casual poses too..

Skyebluesapphire · 01/03/2013 00:40

Quick Q. First message from a bloke:

Does voluptuous mean big boobs then?

Has a good profile, like bigger women, looks ok. Lives within 20 miles.

But why oh why couldn't he start a conversation by saying hi there, you look nice?! I'm inclined to ignore but is there any chance he could actually be a decent bloke? Usually a convo that starts like that is from a perv!!

He is a paying member on Match.com

lubeybooby · 01/03/2013 00:45

I would ignore that one. Bit too thick as well as disrespectful/forward etc.

mercury7 · 01/03/2013 00:46

Skye, that's him on his best behaviour..trying to impress, do you really wanna know what he'll be like when he lets you see the real warts & all man Hmm

OhWesternWind · 01/03/2013 00:48

Can't get to sleep tonight, all just seems too much at the moment.

Bloody bloke.

This is exactly what I was worried about happening. I feel like such a fool.

lubeybooby · 01/03/2013 00:51

Just remember you haven't done anything wrong oww. In a relationship it's perfectly normal to lean on each other when times are rough.

JulietteMontague · 01/03/2013 01:05

Western this is his thing, his mistake. You are so not a fool.

Sky I would ignore, paying member means nothing, some of my best pervs have been paying members. This one was also lacking in respect.

Lubey I hadn't noticed the casual pics. Yuk.

KinNora · 01/03/2013 06:40

Morning everyone, OWW , two things, you are most emphatically not a fool, it's him who has behaved like an arse, and there was nothing self-obsessed about your posts, we all help (or try to help) each other. I hope he's woken up feeling dreadful.

Snapespeare · 01/03/2013 06:54

Oww wrapping you in a good morning hug-type-thing that is like a 9 tog king sized duvet. will be thinking about you today. I can see why youre fed up. he's being selfish by withdrawing when you need some comfort. all I see is you giving. ..he's happy to take, but youre getting crumbs in return lovely. Sad

OhWesternWind · 01/03/2013 07:06

Yes, I'm not going to put up with the crumbs from his table. It's the full loaf or nothing.

He read my text at 3.41. So he's probably not had a good night either.

Feel absolutely rotten today.

Thank you everyone. Hope you all, especially Snape, have a fab day.

MirandaWest · 01/03/2013 07:43

I'm here giving you a massive hug OWW. Crap behaviour from LM - you are right that you deserve much more than that.

VelvetSpoon · 01/03/2013 07:57

Western, I REALLY hope he feels twice as bad as you do, is utterly contrite and massively redeems himself today. It is absolutely the least you deserve.

Big hug type thing from me too. Remember that you are lovely and he's the one who's behaved like a fool. Hoping today is a much better day all round.

KinNora · 01/03/2013 07:59

Oh yes, of course, Snape have a fabulous time with Nameless and his red kecks.

Good luck too to anyone else on dates today.