This is.. the dating chat thread, number 38

[lubeybooby]

All dating related chit chat, as usual... in here

off we go! :o

watch I am disgusted by face-licking in the yankee candle shop.

watch

I'm quite jealous!

Lubey have just caught up with your other thread How are you holding up? x

lubey

will write coherent response when am not on tiny phone with tiny keypad. sending kind thoughts to you today.

Juliette, don't think it's possible maybe til Sunday by the sounds of things. Online is easier in some ways so I don't really mind.

he asked me to smell him and offered his neck/face. which i then grabbed and licked the full lenght off.

Shoulder lenght dark hair, stubble which is bordering on beard really. Piercings, tattos, old band t shirt, distressed leather jacket. ripped jeans.

my god. Sparkly blue eyes, great sense of humour, bloody lovely ( hand holding, door opening, that kind of thing)

yeah.

SS I am ok thanks, still calm. Think I've managed to calm poor TT down as well!

ah lubes, ill check.. sorry to be all swooning, when you have this going on.

Oh god watch no don't worry I love your updates! Please please everyone carry on, I'm fine honestly! x

Watch 11 am you say? 11?

Best pants tomorrow then

yeah.

it might have been before 11 to be honest. It was fucking ridiclous in the coffee shop, it was all eye contact and then footsie, and stroking. and laughing and talking of course, but it was just massivly there.

yeah. so, tomorrow.
:)

It's so cool when it's all totally mutual!

What time tomorrow watch?

hes just said that its just nuts and he wants to see me tonight :)

I told him to man up :)

Its on for tomorrow.

hes cooking, apparently.

in other news, chilli boy texted me yesterday.

middy - pof. I had chatted to him a month ago, we swapped numbers, i stopped etxting, not for any reason. He messaged me again on pof last weekend, i paid attention because he had changed his profile pic, and was very attracted to him, constant texts, calls since then. second date was arranged before we had had the first. he was sure it would be amazing. he was right ;)

oh, lubey, 7:10. he finishes work at 7. he was going to take the whole day off, but i said not to.

Watch, and breathe. That's good that you said wait until tomorrow. I know you fancy the pants off him but no need to rush it all and risk burn out. I've been reading 'why men love bitches'. OK I know, someone gave me it and I'm really really bored at home. So chill and enjoy it.

Liking the sound of this! I am grinny for you ---> :o

im not in a stress, its great :)

ive been waiting for fireworks. I want all consuming fireworks, where you cant bear to be apart. I want to rock someones world.... i want them to rock mine. Ive had it once.... once in my life before. I dont want someone to be ' meh' about me. I want full on, crazy, no holds barred.

I dont play games, im not going to play games, we shouldnt need to play games.

im not going to slow something down, when it doesnt need to be. If it burns out, it burns out. Thats ok, if it goes somewhere, it goes somewhere, thats ok too.

i have no idea what ill wear. he doesnt fancy me for my clothes... cant see it makes much difference. Ill just wear what is clean.

I dont think slow and steady wins the race, i dont even know if there is any race to win.... Ive never been a slow and steady kind of girl. I dumped that one back in oct after what 7 dates, because it was too slow and steady. i dont want someone that can be that in control and not get carried away with whats happening. I want somone who just lets go, you know. I want someone who feels it so much, that he cant be apart from me and lets me lick his face in a shop

OK Watch.

I got a reply to my drunken suggestions of a coffee. Yikes, I hate blind dates so why did I even suggest it . I'm really looking for a new male friend, not a fwb (shudder) or starting a relationship off so there's no harm in a coffee if he arranges it is there?

I really enjoy the mad crazy fireworks lusty stage too Watch. In my experience you can get about a year out of it at best at that heady intense level, but more often about 5 or 6 months before it calms down to normal 'love'... if indeed you do have feelings left over after that time and it doesn't have as explosive ending as beginning. And he doesn't turn out to be a cocklodger/wanker/etc

Chemistry is ace :o enjoy!

Lubey, agree. Chemistry like that is a rare thing.
Im just going to go with it.

( own house, car, good job,money. Doesnt seem cocklodgery)

Excellent! I've been lucky enough to experience it four or five times and enjoyed a wonderful relationship out of it twice (and not bad relationships the other times) in my lifetime. It's good shit man. Better than any drug

I've had it quite a few times. One time with someone who is still a friend of mine. It died down fairly quickly and I could never have more than a cuddle with him now, don't fancy him anymore. But there are reasons for this in that he wasn't and isn't in the right place for me to want a relationship with him.

This guy sounds ideal, Watch.

I just thought it had gone, that i was waiting for something that wasnt realistic.
That didnt exist.

Its nice to know it does.even if it burns out as immediate as it was felt, you know.