This is.. the dating chat thread, number 38

[lubeybooby]

All dating related chit chat, as usual... in here

off we go! :o

He did indeed Snape. She wasn't THERE, like, she was in bed. But still...

Another one got into bed with my mum once, pissed and trying to find the bathroom

Fucking hell we did have some laughs. I HATE being middle aged and settled

But.... But.... Your mum could have popped down for a cup of horlicks! (That does auto-correct to 'hot licks'. I've checked.)

Yes! A date! (Giggles.) date/time as yet unspecificied...hoping for this week.

I know!! Can you imagine???

Right, what's this date all about, I missed it.

Been chatting to a chap on OKC for a couple of weeks. Nice, easy, clever chats. Tall (I can prove this, having seen video footage, unless everyone else was 5ft 2) very handsome in a normal looking kind of way...no smut, lots of shared interests (politics and all the not quite as important ones) averaging one a day or every other day each...so no mad constant contact stuff. One day I didn't get around to replying to the previous days message, and he texted me a witty, un-needy one-liner qualifying what he had said in case I had misinterpreted and was being sulky.

He's nice.

I'm not giving him a name as yet as that has tended to be associated with everything going tits-up.

Oooh. Sounds promising.... And you're going to try for this week? You need clever

I get so tense when you lot go on dates with what sound like promising men.

you get tense!

I'm kind of the stage where I'm not expecting too much, so if he's delightful, that will be wonderful but of course, then he won't fancy me

Yeah, I don't blame you for not getting over-excited. But this one might surprise you....

domesticgodless with the younger chancers I think the porn site ads for hook ups/cams where 'single Mums want cock' 'milfs just want a fuck' lead some to believe that this is indeed true. It's feeds into the myths of the desperate Mum/milf thing. There are also some women who are up for what they see as a fit young nsa shag so it's a numbers game for the guys who think they know someone who knows someone who gets lucky.

I am getting rather concerned. I have now unhidden my POF profile and have yet to get my first bit of filth. Should have known it wasn't a goer when Voice refuses my offer of lingerie pics.

Mama remember it's not what he says its what he does.

Snape no comment here, nothing, nada, niente, no siree

Ok. Without giving TMI - sex on second date with Mr Full On/Mr Possibly Just Wanted Sex. Very confident considering he hadn't been on a single date in two years. He initiated morning sex - Good or just the actions of a man who Just Wanted Sex? He has very limited phone signal where he is today and tonight and told me this before he left. Had one text, just about what he had been doing, no reference to date...

Bunny is it the morning sex that you are asking about?

I suppose I'm just inviting opinions about his behaviour since date 1, I find it all a bit inconsistent. Fairly new to dating coupled with poor self esteem!

Ah, have you posted about him before? I don't know the backstorey. imo sex the night before and morning after is fine. It all depends on how he was with you, when you dtd doesn't matter it is his attitude and behaviour that matters.

Having said that if you are finding him inconsistent, then that is not a good sign. If it doesn't feel right, that might be because it isn't right.

His behaviour in some ways has been too full on, sending a text the morning after date 1 saying 'can't stop thinking about you', checked POF and he'd deleted his account. But then cancelled loosely arranged date 2 due to working late (seems consistent with his job though). Quite keen for sex on actual date 2 and not heard much today - although he did tell me before he left that he wouldn't have signal, to avoid me thinking he'd just wanted sex.

I called it off :(

He was going to take his son home early so he didn't let me down again...I'm just not really comfortable with that when I know he would prefer to be with his son as he doesn't get to see him often at all :(

Said I felt he didn't have space for me right now...he agreed and of course was really lovely about it.

So Mr Transition is over :( I'll miss him, loved chatting to him and getting to know him.

Going to leave match...it confuses me and is expensive...have just joined okc hehe...

anyone else just enjoy the attention and not necessarily looking for anything is paticular?

not admitting sexual problems I can't find the old thread but I am sure that I remember someone replying to one of my posts and saying that they had come across a man who had sexual problems but wouldnt' admit it. Please put me out of my naive misery :) isn't it obvious when a man has "issues"? I'm (in theory) spending the night (for the first time) with new man next week and am getting nervous. I wondered if anyone had any suggestions as to how to make a night away, wehn you both know what is likely to happen, less liley to go tits up from the pressure (or lack of :) )

Juliette, I think you're spot on about the porn ads..guys that follow them are surely in for a pretty rude awakening!
(or rather not nearly as rude as they'd been led to believe :o )

did you post on the wrong thread backonline..or did I miss something?? :)

Hi all. Not been here for a while. I've been getting on with life with Sugar Daddy. It's been a whole six weeks now. We spent last weekend together in Amsterdam. Which was lovely.

I should be relaxing into this now but instead some of the old paranoia is returning. He has done NOTHING to make me distrust him, other than him opting not go home this evening, preferring to have some time to himself. He's coming over tomorrow afternoon though. I am stupid aren't I? Is it just him retreating into his cave? He's not going off me is he?

When did you last see him?

Need to write this down!

Kids all at work/out/dads

My and eldest DD went out this afternoon, came home and were eating dinner and it sounded like someone was walking around upstairs. Though it was son but he was at work. We looked all around house and all was fine. DD went out

Just heard a big noise and a pile of boxes in dining room fell down. No burglar but I am a bit freaked as here alone. Dogs are asleep and haven't made a noise, cat is asleep on sofa.

All very freaky and am looking forward to kids getting home

Bunny I'm not sure I get it, date 2 was cancelled then he came round in the morning or date 2 was rearranged and you had sex this morning as well as after the date?

If the first, not good. If the second, he's actually said he'll have a poor signal to avoid you worrying so as long as you enjoyed it you can only wait and see when he gets in touch. Is there a reason you're doubting the signal thing?

MsC unless your dog is particularly dopey, trust your cat (aliens and zombies) and dog (humans)

Sweet he called around this afternoon. It's me, not quite trusting things....