Bacon sarnies in suspenders, jacket strokers, coffee with a small 'c' and LOTS of Coffee with a capital 'C' it's dating thread 32

[lulubellaboozle]

Thought I take the liberty of starting us off again ...

Aw, I'm hurt.

Morning all.

I was on pof last night. Looked at a few profiles. If they write the following I never message 'sorry if I don't answer your message it means you are not my type'. That really annoys me as it smacks of arrogance.

I got chatting to a few and asked them all whether they were in fact looking for an intimate encounter even through they had stated relationship. Yep many were looking for IE and asked if I was interested.

Got chatting to a couple who seem ok. It's hard work isn't it?

Yes very....I notice this morning amongst my POF messages: 'hello there little miss pretty pops' I am a grown woman in her 40s FFS...

how do you know I've got pretty pops?

lulu I agree if I want to shag someone I do. I play by my own rules. Mr R&R asked me if I was a man in a former life, lots of men have said similar to me. I slept with my ex on the first date, we lasted 25yrs.

I have slept with 3 men since I became single.

1 through OD. A Muppet.
2 through RL. Nice guys.

I know there are decent blokes on OD sites, just get the impression they are thin on the ground.

Nature I guess the split crotch panties and peep hole bra lingerie set that I am wearing in pic 3 ....must have given it away ....oops..

Mr R&R has just texted. A nice slightly flirty text relevant to us I think he maybe a grown up.
A zany, wild in bed grown up

Oh. When we weren't engaging, we talked, all night.

Cherry on the top

Why oh why did I just check out OKC.

Saw a bloke on there I know in RL. He is seeing someone. He was last online 8am today!

ike yes, that could have been it, I suppose

48 'engaging'?

NC - I'm no longer nature because Ironman saw me posting. Shhh.

So very happy today. Spent a wonderful night with LM yesterday, plenty of whatever-we're-calling-Coffee this thread and lots of talking again, feeling emotionally very close to him. I think we just "get" each other totally about so many things, similar backgrounds and everything. He is just fantastic. He is getting more serious about me/us or possibly he's just admitting to his feelings that have been there a little while - can't believe how much things have changed in a week since we had the talk about letting down our barriers. They are coming down on both sides, not totally but enough that we are both able to feel a lot more relaxed and secure with each other. It's wonderful.

Not seeing him again til Friday. It seems like such a long time! Then it's going to be difficult over Christmas too so I'm going to have to make the most of it.

thanks Flo that cheered up my day

That made me

Ha, that was very funny Flo!

I am trying - YET AGAIN!!! - not to let stupid fucking wanker cheating bastard fuckmuppet XH get to me. Honestly, it's been 3 days, 3 days, since he last promised to behave in a more civilised manner towards me. Today we had a conversation that went something like this:

Me: Will that work once the account is deleted?
Him: Fine I'll delete the account
Me: Oh, ok. Thanks for answering my question.
Him: Geez, why do you have to be so confrontational?!

Sorry, done now, as you were.

Flo Absolutely brilliant!!!

Hmm, so, I'm meeting Moon Girl for a drink tonight. I know I know, but I plan to find out I we can just be normal friends without any of this on/off dating/ignoring crap. If we can, great. We get on well, and I'd love to have her as a friend. If not, I'm not playing any more.

Flo very funny!!

Yoga 3 days? impressive he must of tried very hard to go that long! I find that stupid fucking wanker cheating bastard fuckmuppets STBXH's have an inbuilt fuck-it up gene which means unfortunately you have to take everything they say with a healthy dose of disbelief and cynicism.

who? me? bitter? never!

Afternoon all,

I have been away for far too long & this thread has galloped ahead at a dizzying rate. I can't keep up!

OWW That is brilliant news. I'm really happy things are going so well for you.

48 I couldn't agree more with your way of looking at things. I have a friend who has recently started dating a guy she met over FB. Two nights ago she told me in all seriousness that she wasn't going to sleep with him for weeks & when she does she was going to pretend she is practically a virgin (at 26!!!) Her reasoning being that men don't respect women who enjoy sex. There is so much wrong with her thinking that I don't even know where to START putting it right.

Oh and in my world I am, would you believe it, still seeing my man boy. He is adorable and I literally don't know how to handle it. It's made me realise just how many issues I have about men/relationships. I can barely handle anyone treating me nicely. It confuses me & almost depresses me. Why that is I have literally no idea.

at Milk, nice to see you back, maybe just enjoy man boy and revel in it?!

OWW meant to say I am so pleased it is going so well with LM, brilliant news!

I am sticking to RL men.

Mr R&R has asked me out on a date saturday night

Got home to a xmas card from my man in OZ. Very funny. Says he will see me in March. Has put his return address this time. Fuck and double Fuck!

Hi Milk Man/boy Mmmm! Enjoy

Flo Love it!

OWW Thrilled for you!

Milk Maybe a man treating you well, puts you on guard to protect yourself incase it goes all Pete Tong kinda of waiting for the end of the good times.

48 I like the sound of Mr Oz

And MG has cancelled. That's that then. Shame as she'd have made a good friend but I'm done with any messing.