Honey traps leading to kinky fuckery and other dating adventures (No 21)

[KirstyWirsty]

I want to know what Nicholas's tip was ... and the last thread was full!

Tomorrow evening. Thinking a tunic-type top with the leggings..like this? (I don't actually have that top but similar style)

Sorry, Yoga, that link just took me to the home page. A tunic sounds lovely, though, and I agree, for an evening date I'd step up from the jeans. Boots with heels if he's tall?

yoga. You've seen through my distraction plan.

Pm away this weekend, texting prof just now, little to report.

MmmmMmMMm at leggings, heeled boots, tunic style top (god bless whoever made that fashionable! Hides all sins.)

I'm back!!!

Perfectly nice date. Quite fun. Brought cheese. Choked on cheese at cheese counter.... Ran into a corn field, disagreed aboyt corn And masie, got a bag of bay leaves, did some major flirting. Message from him when I.got home :)

Now, who knows if we will.actually go on a second date..... Knowing how it.goes. but it was a fun afternoon, so :)

Yoga leggings and boots with heels would go lovely with the top.

snape love the tattoo. The only issue that I have with the following...

He replied, no, you get to sit in the dark & phemerones are pinging off all over the place, then you get to talk about the film... have you seen Batman yet? Shall we go next week?

...is that by the end of the film neither of you should have any idea what it was about

watch glad you had a good time :)

My cosmic order didn't work out

watch. I'd forgotten about the cheese man!! Glad it went well. :).

chaos. It's about batman. I can tell you that now!

Thank you all for lovely positive tattoo comments. :)

Apart from choking that sounded like a great date watch!
Enjoy your date yoga

Snape, you protest too much!

In a chat with mr dish, WHO, as per snape, I'm renaming cheese man!!!!

And yeah, was a nice date..would do it again. He's said we should. But you know how it goes..... Not overly fussed if we dont

watch your date sounds fun! Mine's not til tomorrow but will keep you posted.

Meanwhile am trying not to encourage Mr Tall because really can't be bothered with all the travelling. Have had quite a few messages on OKC, have replied to a few but nothing else interesting yet.

Umm. Just asked the prof out. Ummm. The sex was.. Umm...good. . Bollocks, this is complicated. Never mind, I have biscuits.

anyone else want to banf snape and pm's heads together?

Right I am as we speak setting up a OKC profile.

I have no idea what to put into it. (or what not to) where do I start?

Just got off the phone to the guy I met twice last week. We have our third date next week - we are going out for dinner!

HELP!

What do I do? I have a message from someone 20yrs older than my max age
And he admits he's married.
And I'n not interested.

Do I send a polite thanks but no thanks message back (saying what actually?)
Do I ignore?
Do I need to block or something?

Ignore! Do not engage!

cool...will do. I need to learn the rules!

Ignore!!!!! Esp if he' smarried he does not get a polite anything. Either ignore or telll him to fuck off as he's a heating prick (sorry am a little runkd)

Oh fuck, now Mr Tall has asked me for that date and I'm too drunk to repsond sensibly.

Just sent this to some 25 yo on OKC who wants to knwo if the whole inernet dating thing works:
"Well I reckon the whole internet dating thing might work but not if you are 25 and want kids and are messaging someone who's 40 and doesn't."

Well I was at my sisters tonight and the next door neighbours brother and wife came over! He told them we had been chatting on Facebook and might go out! The brother said it seems like he wants the go ahead from him as it may be too close to home basically! And I also got the impression that they think he isn't up for a serious relationship and maybe just a bit of fun! Which would be fine by me! But as he is clearly rude and been messing me around then I doubt it's a good idea!! Glad I didn't run into him tho!!

Also fwb has text me tonight asking if in out he can jog on too!

I'm starting to feel like I have bad karma coming my way, because with mr intense I slept with him and I'm kind of leaving him hanging, just incase I need some action! And what goes around comes around I guess!

I'm feeling abit crao about the situation with the next door neighbour as I wasn't really that interested and now that he's not bother I am

Moving: your neighbour seems like real hard work. A pinch of salt comes to mind!

Yoga: what are ou doing for your date today/night?

I really do struggle with OD. I think some of it might be negativity on my behalf sneaking through. Yesterday I got 18 messages on pof. Not all potatoes. I answered the ones I liked and all of them have ground to a halt. Plus the ones who have asked me out have also ground to a halt-i.e there has been no momentum. It's because I think they all want me to commit to have sex with them before I meet them so I'm really guarded. Breeeath...relax....that's what I need to do. And maybe be a bit more encouraging. Rant over.

I agree moving - it doesn't sound like neighbour is worth pursuing. Nothing wrong with wanting something casual but if he's going to make you chase him not worth it!

Date tonight - meeting in town for a drink at 7 but I guess with the potential to get something to eat if it's going well...? I thought he was kind of 'playing it cool' because it took so long to actually arrange the date but now I'm not sure - I had some nice texts from him yesterday saying he's nervous about meeting me which I find quite sweet. So we'll see..

Mr Tall who did finally ask me for a date last night. I was a bit drunk (I'd just been round to a friends) and told him he lived too far away but I thought he was sexy (oops ) and he said there was no harm just getting a wee coffee sometime. So we'll see about that one too!

The rest of my OKC inbox consists of:

-50 yo, lives nearby who sounds quite nice but totally not attracted to - I've replied once
-45 yo who I'm not sure about, haven't replied yet - looks a bit scary
-46 yo who lives an hour away - replied last night to say I found the distance thing a pain
-gorgeous 39 yo who lives nearby & I've replied to once but a)I suspect he is far too cool & artsy for me and b)so far all he's managed to say (twice) is 'How are u?'
-Another one from an hour away!
-39 yo who's a bit geeky looking and 6'2" (remember I'm very short!)
-Yet another from an hour away
-and the stupid 25 yo mentioned above

So don't think there's anything promising in the rest of that lot

BTW - Stupid 25yo has replied to say he doesn't care if I'm 40 and don't want any more kids (he does), he thinks I'm beautiful and he likes me! Should i tell him to go play with someone his own age?

Snape -- you are blatantly ignoring all my brilliant advice! Posting soppy messages on FB to barely disguised people is NOT ON. He'll know you meant him, and he'll alternately shudder and giggle. At you! Ugh.

It's like you want to be unhappy. Me no understand.

You're worth 100% more than this. But you won't get it this way. Nuh uh. No you won't.