Honey traps leading to kinky fuckery and other dating adventures (No 21)

[KirstyWirsty]

I want to know what Nicholas's tip was ... and the last thread was full!

Snape, maybe the prof was expecting the alternative film ending...

I don't know if I could do a blog, I'm not sure it wouldn't be too depressing for everyone to read...

Thanks Watch. I think I am lovely, and clever, and none of it makes the slightest difference.

I agree the Prof may have seen PM as a challenge, and not expected to lose.

Blog! Blog! Blog! Blog! :-)

clearly the prof has fallen under the spell of my 'moves'... this is why I don't have sex very often, I just ruin the other participant for all other women... he as the one who stated 'fabulous fling' as he wants children & I don't. 'fling' implies a short-term thing. He knows about PM. what he might not be entirely clear about is how it is...

As I said, its fucked up. But I've been very honest. He'd be great as a fwb, but there's no question of long term. After all, 'on paper' prof wins hands down. He doesn't know about gte sleepy-hand-heart.

Oh crap. I'm Jessie J & adele. 'do it like a dude' back to back with 'rolling in the deep'... (sorry, more chick-talk...)

Yogagirl maybe our dating lives are following in the same path what with encounters with Hen Men and now this! Hopefully not the exact same blokes though, I am in north-west England . . .

He has been texting me with some very sweet texts to keep me entertained through a finance meeting. Definitely not all about sex. I need to get a grip fast, this is turning into a silly teenager style of thing

PM GOT A JOB!

Ok, now you are definitely allowed to spill the beans to him.
And dump him if he still doesn't recognise that he loves you.

And Techno
Oh jesus, it's gone very girly in here.
I'm going to beat up some guys later today. If not, then Saturday.
No, yes, really.

You know the moaning about being single thing, I don't do it so much, family were frankly horrified by Mrl. They all said what was I.doing, I wasn't desperate. And he was not right for me....

And that is something that kind of worries me.
I think I want to get Mr K past (some) family and friends before getting more serious.

Yes. In a way I'm.Glad people met him early on, everyone said to me on their own, it wasn't a mass intervention! And it was on the last day of the holiday, so they had spent 4 days with him.

It was good they spoke up, and confirmed things that had been bugging Me, but after 4 days I really couldn't ignore his behavior.

Snape, any news from either?

Sponge ? Anything?

watch no, nothing since this morning. which kind of speaks for itself.

The whole FB thing is really awkward as well. I've never been friends on FB with anyone I've been on a date with

I have of course had loads of texts from PFWB today but as these revolved around me helping him to find a job I'm not overly enthused.

And I still feel a bit hungover.

Oh arse just texted him to say have got babysitter for weekend and all has suddenly gone quiet. I know he's seen the text as the little typing icon came up then went away. Shiit shit shit.

snape congratulations to PM. Get that champagne and seduce him with your charm and sex godessness :)

sponge I had to laugh at your dates only eating potatoes and cucumber etc.

WW I'm in the north west too. Give him time, he may be rearranging his schedule or something.

WW - don't panic, sounds like it's all going great, maybe his phone just rang or something. I'm sure he'll be back later. Actually, I"m in Scotland so we're probably not actually seeing the same men!

Enjoy feeling like a teenager - I'll try not to be too bitter & jealous

Techno of course it's gone very girly in here - yourself excepted this is pretty much a thread of single, frustrated (some less frustrated than others at the moment snape) women trying to figure out what's going on with men. I'm off to paint my toenails and braid my hair. Deal with it.

Right, I need a good talking to and advice. I have been on quite a few dates, found most of them disappointing, no spark etc etc. All very cool and under control. I am not one to grab the first bloke that comes along or anything.

So here I am with new bloke and I have got it BAD. I seriously need to calm down and get a grip - question is, how?? I really do not want to be feeling like a blooming teenager, I am a confident, intelligent woman but here I am reading things into every text or phone call. This is so not like me. What can I do?

nicholas can you pm me the message please party because im nosey and partly because if i ever meet someone I actually like I might need it

Sorry WW, can't help you - told you, 2 months ago I was you, teenage hormones and all, and look where it got me. Having said that, it was fucking brilliant while it lasted. So my advice - enjoy.

snape how was he kinky fuckery? I want some

Am just marking my place as otherwise this thread will be full without me having seen any of it

Ok, you're all going to kill me, but I just emailed Mr I'll-Text-You-For-Hours-Saying-How-Stunning-And-Amazing-You-Are-Then-Just-Suddenly-Stop,-Leaving-You-Thinking-There's-Something-Wrong-With-You, asking for an explanation. I said I understand if he's not interested anymore, but why not just say so? I said I had been under the impression he was sophisticated.

I'll let you know his reply, no matter how humiliating, as a cautionary tale for you all!

nicholas could I have the PM too please?

Seeing him this weekend

So an update and a question.

Update - I've somehow ended up having a fairly lengthy and ongoing conversation with a man on OKC who sounds funny & intelligent (and hasn't made a single smutty comment, aside from one very vague innuendo). Thoroughly enjoying it except I'm an idiot because a)he's 6'1" and b)he lives 50 miles away! Seems I don't learn.

Question - Mr Stax (remember him? No, i've nearly forgotten about him myself) - we exchanged a bunch of emails last weekend, agreed to go for coffee, I asked him when and haven't heard since. He's clearly not that keen - and I'm not really that bothered TBH - but tempted just to email again with something suitabley tongue in cheek like "so I guess i"m not getting that coffee then?" ;)

Ok, he's replied saying 7 hours daily commute this week and 7 hours a day working. I knew he had a lot on this week, but it takes literally 2 minutes to send an email saying that!

I wouldnt bother yoga. it could be a thousand reasons.

yoga The Rules book would say don't bother, but I think what's the harm? You've not met in person yet, so he's not had the chance to see how amazing you are yet. If you had met and he was playing it cool I'd say ignore just wish I'd follow my own bloody advice.

I probably wouldn't bother either tbh. So many men disappear between offering a date and actually arranging it, I once had about 3 do this in the space of a week.

After spending all day moping round about Mr Scared of Peas who I've still heard nothing from since this mornings texts, I've given up trying to figure out what goes on in his tiny mind. At least I'm going away tomorrow :)