Chutney Twunt pt 3

[LouP19]

Back again, is this a record? How many threads can this bastard have? You are all keeping me going this afternoon - you and friends on email and friends on text. It's keeping me angry which is good.

Sorry for the random message. My 3yo dd got hold of my phone while I was putting some laundry on. I've reported it.

Really hope the solicitor goes well today. We're all behind you.

Waves pom poms madly. Eats some camembert.

MadCap - I assumed it was some secret MN code

MadCap I too thought it was secret code and you were perhaps trying out my PI capabilities

I'm impressed she managed to get a word and some punctuation in there. Do you think I should start an "Is my toddler gifted?" thread?

Sorry for hijacking LouP! Good luck at the sols today!! Think you should have a hit taken out on the bastard. I've got some mob-like family in New Jersey.

And what an appropriate word too MadCap (although perhaps you meant web but I see poo is in there too!)

Best of luck today Lou.

Another one de-lurking, although I do not know what to say - am gobsmacked by his lunacy. Having read all your threads, I just wanted to add my name to your list of supporters.

I think you have been amazing to remain so dignified. Good luck today. If nothing else, you have the support and kindness of many, many strangers willing you through this from afar.

I am now getting worried about more and more people talking about how identifiable this thread is. But I don't know what to do. Can anyone advise or move it somewhere for me? Would really appreciate your help. This has been an invaluable source of information, support and rage for me. I don't want to lose it, but I don't want to get into trouble either.

Get in touch with MNHQ and ask them to to move it to Off The Beaten Track. Threads there only remain active for 30 days and you need to be logged in as a MN member to access that thread.

The thread doesn't show up in Google searches and cannot to liked on FB so is pretty secure.

It doesn't show up in 'Active Threads' panel either.

Move it to the other place and rename it "ploughmans lunch" or something, thinking along the lines of meats and chutneys etc

Lou Good luck at the Sols and if you go to the private place, I (and my outrage, shock, horror and puerile sense of humour) are coming too!

Cheering you on from New Jersey (don't know any mobsters though, sorry)
:)

And then if we can remove all posts referring to OTBT so if chutney twunt has seen etc, he won't be able to locate them once they've moved.

I urge all other posters on Lou's thread to be very very careful too in light of another thread that has emerged, which I think is a bit suss tbh

Babylon pm me which thread you're referring to, thanks.

Good idea on moving the thread.

I am wondering if that is the thread I posted on a little while ago, Babylon.

As a first time poster who has been following your thread, I just wanted to wish you well for your meeting with the Solicitor today.

I hope you are offered some good advice to stop his access to the property, or at least control it. Whilst he has a right to enter the property I cannot believe he has the right to simply remove items without consultation and agreement.

His continued willingness to asset strip the marital home simply underlines the overwhelming sense of misplaced entitlment and self absorbtion that have been evident in every action he has taken.

As many others have already said, I really admire the dignity with which you (and your family) have responded to the actions of the twunt (I refuse to call him a man or even bastard, as even the latter would elevate him to status of which he his clearly not worthy).

Lou - why don't you copy out your first two threads (to print or disc somewhere where only you can access them) and then ask them to be deleted? And ask for this thread to be moved to the other place.

Great idea mistlethrush

If this thread is going to the other side. I think this should be deleted and a new one started.

It's really silly to use the forum name or the initials. As it can all be cached and linked back. That's supposed to be a secret place. Not named openly as it can cause links and caches to google.

So do ask for your posts with the forum name or initials to be removed. But I think if this is going to the other side. To delete the whole thread.

Second or third mistlethrushs idea.

You may want to think about buying an external hard drive or memory stick for your PC that you simply plug into USB port to which you can copy files and data you want to keep private.

These are pretty small and could be kept in your handbag, so even if the home PC is compromised by him, your data would be safe. If you have access to a scanner you can even store letters from your solicitor etc in this way.

Yep. Lou - Make copies of all three threads, keep them safe with all of your other papers/letters and then get all three threads deleted.

Then all future discussions on this topic can be held in the other place.

if a new thread does get started, how will we know so that we can continue to give LouP our support ?

I am happy to direct the posters on this thread to the new one/new place if that's okay by Lou (although Babylon may be a more appropriate person to do this).

Let's wait to see what she says?