Chutney Twunt pt 3

[LouP19]

Back again, is this a record? How many threads can this bastard have? You are all keeping me going this afternoon - you and friends on email and friends on text. It's keeping me angry which is good.

Morning Lou

What a twunt! although you may not believe me , you will one day look back at this time and be able to laugh at just how petty he is being.

Good luck at the sols, totally get the go to work after thing .. being busy takes your mind off going totally mad .

Waves pom poms at PIBABYLON .. go get him!!

Hope it goes well for you today Lou.

Not asking what it is he has taken, but I am assuming that since you noticed whilst lying in bed, that it means he has been in your bedroom. If that is so, it is just so morally wrong of him - like someone said upthread, he truly is the gift that keeps right on giving!!

You are bound to have days where you are running on adrenaline, and days where the shocks and trauma will leave you exhausted. Try to take the best care of yourself that you can. There will be light at the end of the tunnel, you just have a journey through the dark bits to get to it.

Thinking of you today Lou. Hope it all goes well.

Good luck for the sols Lou.

Keep on keeping on xx

It's really sad, it seems like he wants to keep twisting the knife. Is it because he's not getting attention? Or that he's blaming you Lou, which is why he's being so disrespectful, I think Math's analysis seems to be scarily accurate.

Morning Lou,
Have a good appointment this morning- icy calm is the way forward at this point. However, it wouldn't be the end of the world if you were a tad upset at work would it? Dignity has served you well, but your colleagues are his colleagues and the more of them that are rooting for you (and want to stab him with a biro) the better.
Stay angry, stay strong x x

And please do send hime 'who moved my cheese' when you serve the divorce papers, it's perfect!

I've been wondering too about how much info is on these threads - perhaps Mumsnet could move them to chat so they disappear in 90 days if you want Lou.

Once Lou has got the help she needs. She can always ask for them to be deleted. Or if cuntney gets wind. To the other side.

Don't tell me he took the light fittings?!

It's not petty at all. Calling him a snake is pretty apt. I'm not surprised you are running on empty, most of us would have curled up into a ball and refused to leave the house by now.

Good luck.

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Haven't posted before Lou but have followed your thread from the beginning with my jaw getting closer to the floor each time - I'm just speechless at the sheer c*ntery of your stbx. Your world has come crashing down and you have handled it with dignity and strength. You are "well rid" of this absolute twunt of a man - I can't even find the words to express what I want to say about the weasel! You've had some fantastic advice and support on here, may it continue for as long as you need it. One day, your life will reach a new "normal" and you won't look back! Good luck with the solicitors today, and stay as strong as you have been.

I think porto is coming in for unfair stick here. I have been lurking and reading in horror at the way that lou has been treated. it beggars belief. but porto has obviously just been trying to reign in some of the more outlandish ideas. shrieking and bosom hoiking has its place, but its important to stay practical. I'd be interested to know what her "agenda" would be.

Oh gosh, he actually took more stuff.

I think you really should bring this up with the solicitor. Surely all furniture/general household items are jointly owned and should stay in the marital home until the assets have been divided?

I wouldn't be surprised if he has ideas about clearing other stuff from the house too. :(

Lou do you think that your threads should maybe be moved to OTBT to protect your privacy? You would still get all the support.

Finger crossed for the solicitors this morning.

Keep angry Lou it helps trust me!

xx

Make sure he hasn't accessed these threads, you are entitled to have some space to yourself but be careful x

Morning Lou

I would say your text was incredibly restrained. Love the idea of 'who moved my cheese' but it's not something to do for right now. (And nor is sending him the wedding album!)
I'm sure you can quite adequately distinguish between the humorous suggestions and the real advice on this thread, as you have shown nothing but restraint and competence all through your ordeal. :)

Cool, calm, collected - but let the anger buoy you along like larva bubbling away under a volcano. He is gradually losing control of the situation and he knows it.

Best of luck today. x

Taken all the meat?! He's losing it big time...

This is not a word I use lightly but what a CUNT. :(

Love and positive thoughts to you, Lou. xx

chat is good, because it moves so quickly things tend to get buried there unless you know what you are looking for :), was just a thought anyway.

Good luck with the sol. Please advise her of all that has happened since you saw her, got to give her the info so she can start putting things in place to reel in his self entitlement, while the legal process is completed

Thinking of you today Lou, hope it goes well with solicitor.

Oh and please say he didn't take your rings!?

I also thought OTBT might be a better place, maybe you should ask for it to be moved and the others deleted.

If it wasnt so awful Lou it would be laughable.

Just think in 5 years time i'm sure you will be with a lovely new guy and able to laugh with him and your family about the lunatic chutney twunt.

Dear God, he hasn`t taken the lamp shade - or even the light fitting! - has he?? You did say you were staring at the ceiling Lou.

If it were me, I wouldn`t be telling the solicitor about putting Babylon on the case. They prefer you to use a PI of their choice.......at huge cost to you.