please please help

[LouP19]

I have come home and my husband has moved out all of his belongings. Everything, even the garage is clear. He dropped me off after work and said he had to go and play cricket and needed some time on his own. I was distraught and said we needed to talk. Things haven't been right for a few weeks, he has denied somebody else.

All of his belongings are gone. I am shaking. No one knows where he has gone. Married 5 years, no kids. Please please help.

Can I genuinely ask, what guidelines have I 'broken?', as I have only stated that, in my opinion, Marianne is a troll? If that is breaking guidelines then I apologise. I change my opinion to that the poster is thoughtless.

Fuck off MarianneM.

Enjoy your chutney marianne

I'm not surprised her 'tone is unpleasant' given the nature of her DH's behaviour. In the OPs shoes my tone would be the least of my concerns.

Anyway, if you question the authenticity of a poster or thread, aren't you supposed to report to MNHQ rather than suggest it on the thread?

Yeah I think I called her bluff when actually I should have just hit the report button

Live and learn.

But definitely MN at it's best - I've seen some amazing advice being offered up here today

Flisspaps - you're making this sounds like a police investigation.

I have always disliked this pack instinct - one that is so often found in MN.

Marianne are you bathing in chutney as you write???

Marianne PMSL because either you haven't read the thread at all or you are shit stirring.

Lou: my first post on this thread has been deleted for breaking guidelines (?). Could I please let you know that I wish you all the best and have so felt for you reading this thread. My first post was intended to defend you to a heartless poster. To clarify, my reference to the original poster being thoughtless was directed to Marianne, not to you. All the best, please take all the care in the world and accept every hug and kind word from your family and friends. One day, I promise, you will be okay. Much love and kind thoughts xxx

MarianneM - If you don't like the 'pack instinct' or the OP's 'tone', there is always the option of just fucking off and not reading it.

If you choose to read and comment on the thread regardless, then don't start getting all pissy when the rest of us call you out on the shit you are spouting.

Much love ducky.

Pack instinct ?

No no, what you have just seen is a unanimous verdict about a self obsessed , cutlery stealing, chutney smuggler . Just because we all think the same about this complete wankbadger , just means his behaviour is so atrocious that no one could possibly excuse it .

We're not a pack, we're all just right .

Have just read this thread with my jaw edging closer and closer to my chest.

What a total cock.

You sound fab btw, Glad you've had some great advice and humour here to help you through this.

You can do it. My Ex and father to my DS cheated on me - we also had similar relationship towards the end where it was very close and very distant. (btw his was a ONS).

It was his actions after that made getting back together after a definate non starter.

Your doing brilliantly. I have to go to bed now but will come back tomorrow.

Cakeismysaviour - I didn't realise you were not allowed to disagree with the majority on MN.

I didn't say you were not allowed to disagree. I merely suggested that if you talk a load of shit, then you should expect other posters to point it out.

Anyway, I am not replying to you again as this thread is about Lou, not you.

I think its best not to give idiots like you the oxygen of replies to your bullshit posts anyway.

Oh don't be a knob, Marianne

Go & stir it somewhere else, this woman's having enough of a crap time as it is.

So how are you op? Cats ok. I've got to say, I know it's wrong and not funny. But in a black way I'm still finding the text he sent you outrageously funny. He really does have a god complex doesn't he! Well shot of him me thinks.

Hope you sleep well OP. May I advise when a day seems long to do an hour at a time.

You're right HouseofPain - better to let some creatures go hungry or tell them to eat some chutney :o

Night night OP, sleep tight x

I have not posted to stir shit - I disagreed.

My last posts were strongly worded in response to being called an idiot etc.

I know. I'm never going to be able to look at a man straight now....when he pulls a jar of chutney out.

Hope you are getting some sleep op.