New man - landline/email?

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Been seeing some a few weeks - only have his mob number. He took longer than usual to reply to a text and it occurred to me that if phone broke or something, no way of contacting eachother, so asked him for his landline/email address. He hasn't given them to me and (apprently jokingly) called me a stalker...
was i wrong to ask?

No not married and does have landline. been to his house, and he's not bee with his ex for 7 years - evertyhing he's told me so far adds up

huge red flag he is calling you a stalker.... no joking.. sorry

thats what i thought. have now sent a not very friendly text saying not sure why its such an issue...

It's a pretty weird response to call you a stalker, even as a joke.

peppa - why red flag?! sorry new to all this after being married..

i have recently learned the very hard way.. all i can say is trust your instincts. if you start questioning yourself too much, red flag and run... he shouldnt make you feel this way

It's early days I suppose. I don't have a landline and wouldn't necessarily give out my email address to someone I'd only been seeing a few weeks unless they were actually planning on emailing me something. I wouldn't even give out my address but seeing as you've already been to his house that's irrelevant.

Calling you a stalker is OTT though.

Oh, X posts with quite a few!

Yes, think you could be right, sadly... He was alos the one i posted about yesterday who "couldnt used condoms". However he called to say he' arrange a test today so things were looking up, until this eve

yes i am divorced after 13 yrs too and i have learned a lesson. i didnt think i was naive, far from it. however i have just managed to get out of a relationship with an absolute idiot. anyone who says something, then says "just joking" is more like a teenager. never question yourself too much. i may be reading too much into it however i wish you the best and just be careful :-)

Why can't he use condoms? He sounds like a douchebag.

yes peppa, think you might be right - i shouldn't be questioning things so much. Interestingly he's not replied to my text. Think that's the end of that :(

get out and now.. the minute you say "i think youre right" it is because you know youre right. get out before you get more attached and move on.. really :-)

Can't keep it up with them, so he booked a test today as i refused t do anything without condoms/a test

its a few weeks.. its nothing. you shouldnt be feeling this way after a few weeks! how did you meet him?

i know peppa - i was getting very, very attached too. Obviuosly to much if asking for a phone no/email has freaked him out

met him in a bar on a night out with a friend - seemed nice, she thought so too

omg, I cant believe he is telling you his medical problems already and you havent slept with him? lol
to be honest i would be questioning if it is an excuse, he just doesnt want to use condoms..

h said condoms hadnt been an isue before but as i was worried about it, he'd book a test

in my opinion.. getting so attached after a few weeks is a warning flag for you... you can really really like someone but if you are just exchanging texts you dont really know. i have an instinct about this after what i have just experienced and i just want you to be careful :-)

I'd be tempted to text him 'if I was going to make the effort to stalk a man, I'd at least choose one who can maintain an erection' and then never contact him again.

He's just text to say he really was jokingm and will let me know tomorrow and wants to make up.
god this is all so difficult -