Dating, Loitering and Sofa Surfing, It's All Happening! Dating Thread 16.

[TimeForMeAndDD]

In continuation from previous thread:

Watch do not talk exclusivity until you have assessed the contents of his trouser department after the 5th date. Only after you have assessed the contents of his trouser department the 5th date do you decide whether or not the willy he is worth the commitment.

And yes, of course you go on Friday!! What on earth are you thinking woman! Today you were the BOSS of a coconut shy, a few of his friends will be nothing compared to that!

I've got to go make coffee, I've just watch Paying it Forward and I am in bits! BITS!

wow jubilee,u sure nothing happened?lol
update
went on date with this guy friday,he seem genuine as been chating for a while b4 meeting him and been chating since.I nearly believed all the lies untill today he asked if we can be a couple and join swingers site..Have deleted his number,all the messages and will be deleting my profile from pof,i think most of the men there are crap.Will enjoy single life for now and see who i meet in real life.GOOD LUCK TO ONLINE DATERS.

jubileefanjo. Thats sounds lovely! :)
feelinglonely. What a SLEAZEBAG, join us on the sofa! .

nothing inherantly wrong with swinging!
(cant say i fancy the idea much meself tho...)

sponge glad you had a good weekend. They were right you are gorgeous, it is good to hear it though, does wonders for the ego/self esteem.

Snape

watch enjoy your date :) Never did get this camping lark, I like electricity (hair straighteners), running water and flushing toilets to be in the same 'building' as me, preferably for my (and family's) personal use.

MLM take care of yourself.

jubilee that sounds great.

FL definitely a sleazebag. Welcome to the sofa.

Someone has posted on AIBU about receiving a cock pic from someone on POF.

Nothing at all happened and that's why I'm in shock myself

He's just text saying he would like to meet up again whenever is easy for me. Since deleting POF RL has been working well

I haven't even bothered deleting mine, just not been on them. Too busy/stressed/tired/cant be arsed to date. Happily single, so budge up on that sofa some more. LOL.

MLM I deleted due to the amount of weirdos. Only joined up for few days before deleted it.

I also got a few cock pics from pot and this recent Date who is after swinging sent lots
Mercury7.I can't imaging myself swinging, it could be fun but not for me.

They aren't all weirdos just I am not bothering for now. Sort my head and heart home.

I suppose it depends on what is classed as swinging Feel...I guess it's multiple partners simultaneously?
I dont mind the occasional 3some and I tend to have more than one fwb arrangement running concurrently but I dont really think that counts

We've only been on date n he is talking abt swinging, to me is weird. He want to set a profile with my pic( one I sent to him on his phone )n his on the swinging site n meet couples in his flat.

What worriesl me we've been on one date and he's talking abt swinging. Is not like we've met on swingers site.

sounds like a nutter!
Or some kind of predator?
You'd need to know & trust someone before embarking on any such ventures i think!

Yea I wouldn't mind trying something new but am looking for a long term relationship at the moment. He said he get offers all the time and told him if I want a shag I can have one but after long term.Not nice sleeping around is it?

So what does it mean when he deletes his profile after your 2nd date ? Am I that bad?

Has he not been in contact via phone? Cos if he is it might mean he doesn't want to talk to anyone but you, if not it is most probable he was married and either got too guilty or found out. Don't worry sbpu

Has he not been in contact via phone? Cos if he is it might mean he doesn't want to talk to anyone but you, if not it is most probable he was married and either got too guilty or found out. Don't worry about it. Back on the horse you get.

I am okay now deep breaths, waterproof mascara and today and yesterdays wobbles will not be happening again. LOL.

Feeling he gets offers all the time??
yeah right
he's LYING it's just a ploy to try and make you think he's desirable or you're missing out on something.

Single men as far as I know are viewed with a little scepticism in the swinging scene (?) and men who are looking for casual sex no the net do not get offers all the time.
For a start there are way more men than women looking for casual sex on the net the vast majority of them are lucky to even get a reply from any women at all.
Just ignore him and he'll crawl back under the stone from whence he came:o

peppa no idea what it means but if he goes silent and doesnt respond to any communication it means he's a nasty wee shiite so dont waste any of your precious time & energy on him!

Not too worried, just curious, think i've put him off dating not done to avoid me as I was at his house briefly today, have phone number and e-mail if wanted to contact. But date was very patchy today, he did text but that was just thanking me for some information he wanted for his son. Anyway got another date lined up for Sunday, different bloke
Glad feeling better miracle

agree the swinging guy almost certainly DOESNT get offers all the time (unless imaginary offers made up by his fertile imagination count!) I'd tell him to fuck right off tbh. don't waste any more thought on him!

peppa, maybe he's just decided he's not ready for dating?

I'm feeling really happy (amazing what a bit of male attention and some compliments can do! ) albeit a bit fat - too much jubilee overindulgence, so back to work and a healthier diet tomorrow :)

Feeling if he gets so many offers why would he need to try and manoeuvre you like that?

I do agree that it's very rare for people to admit things like that openly but glad I posted it just to bring it home to people to be careful.

Think though I must have something about me that makes people tell the truth (don't worry not getting complacent) but the recent posts reminded me... I messaged a guy for him to reply that he was into swinging, oh I can pick um ha ha

what's with the POF swingers? lol! each to their own...

Fate update.

Have just spent the last 5 hours having THE BEST sex of my life. Ever..EVER.

He, weirdly never came????!!!!! I lost count.
I am shocked because he is utterly, utterly filthy. Utterly.

He mentioned/ asked about doing it again a lot, despite this I have a nagging feeling that that's the last of it and I won't hear from him again.

He did tell me he had told a few people he had met ' a really nice girl' but I picked up a few things and I.must admit by " player" radar is on amber ( this was
typically at the end of the night)

So, all in all, I don't know..I had an amazing Time, obviously..but, yeah..I.expect thats it.

Sex? On date 4!!

He never came??? At all???

I do hope you are wrong and he isn't a player. I will be very disappointed if he is, and if you don't hear from him again.