Dating, Loitering and Sofa Surfing, It's All Happening! Dating Thread 16.

[TimeForMeAndDD]

In continuation from previous thread:

Watch do not talk exclusivity until you have assessed the contents of his trouser department after the 5th date. Only after you have assessed the contents of his trouser department the 5th date do you decide whether or not the willy he is worth the commitment.

And yes, of course you go on Friday!! What on earth are you thinking woman! Today you were the BOSS of a coconut shy, a few of his friends will be nothing compared to that!

I've got to go make coffee, I've just watch Paying it Forward and I am in bits! BITS!

There is, but he would either enjoy it too much or not at all (the version we mentioned today at our self-defence class).

dont like tongue but tend to do it in middle of shaging.
Had a date yesterday with this 46 yr old ive been chating to,he is lovely and genuine and wanted to try the older age,lol.It turns out her daughter is in the same sch as my kids so meet b4 the date when we were both droping kids at breakfast club.I recognised him but he said he didnt.Anyway he msg to:do u still want a date after seing me?He is not the type i go for but want to give him a chance.The date was great and couldnt believe how good he was at his age,only i didnt orgasm:( dont know but i felt like something was missing,no feelings what so ever.He msg to say wow and how beautifull i was
replied "lol"and thats it.I feel sorry for him bcos i dnt think ill go for a second date but he wants to.Its going to be awkward if i bump into him at the school bcos i dnt know how to tell him i dnt fancy him after all the licking and the shaging.(I needed it though n had a cd in my wallet)

Amazing 24 hrs. Amazing.

He is so lovely.
We went to the cinema, walked in holding hands, kissing, ridiculous :) feeding each other ice cream, snogging and intertwined limbs while the film was on. Possibly embarassing seeing as I'm 33 not 15, but I don't care.

Walked arm in arm, stopping for kisses on the way to the restaurant... Sat side by side... Feeding each other dinner, neck kissing, things whispered in ears...

And the whole Time he's telling me how beautiful I am, or how attractive, or how fit. Etc... Bloody wonderful :)

Come home to a whole night of sex, possibly an hours sleep.

Have breakfast on my patio, in dressing gowns, playing jenga. Shower, more sex :)

Eventually head out to a pub lunch, come back, more sex. And he's off on his last gig ( so I'm.staying away, don't want to introdude)

Seeing him tomorrow and wed before I go away.

No doubt I'll see him when I get Back.

It's frankly bloody amazing. He's so nice. And so much fun. And I like spending Time with him, it just feels very easy and right.

Few things mentioned in the longer term scale... Like next few months, so I think we are cauciouscally heading in the same direction. Maybe.

Anyway, bloody, bloody good weekend.

Watch your post just made me a lot. Am so pleased you are having a wonderful time :)

And by the way if intertwined limbs and snogging in the cinema is embarrassing if you are 33 then it must be more so if you are 36 . Intertwined limbs is v good I am finding.

Nearly had unfortunate moment this afternoon during my brief meeting with Mr Nice - his DS was coming back from holiday and due back around 3 to 3:30. DD at birthday party until 3 about 10 minutes away. So we felt safe to indulge a little. Luckily we came back downstairs (clothed) about 2:30 as at 2:35 in walks his DS. Would have not been good about 10 minutes earlier .

:)
Thanks Miranda.

Its all just fab, it really is. And its been so, so long.since I've been like that with anyone, or they have been like that with me.

And snogging and other activities every two seconds because you just can't keep your hands off them.

Probably look ridiclous walking around being like that. But It's just Damn lovely.

We had intended on going shopping, he offered to come with me. Or cut the grass. I said he didn't have to, he said he wanted to, it was nice and how nice it is just being with me :)
And it is.

Though we didn't end up doing any of those things because we got distracted. But we did make it out.for lunch.

And he might not be the best looking bloke in the world and he could do with a shopping trip !!! But none of that matters at all. We were at the cinema, fingers all intertwinded, lazy stroking of body parts, and I looked over at his face, watching the film and I was like ' yeah, I like you a lot'

Obviously didn't say that. Did ask him if I.would see him before I go away, because I would like to, he positively beamed at that :)

I know the feeling of getting distracted and making it out for lunch eventually . 3:30 being a fairly recent one .

I need to get organised if I want to see Mr Nice at all soon as XH can't have them Thursday and then I have marking work that has to be done over the weekend. But if I do the first part quickly and accurately I can maybe fit him in. Will do my preparation this week instead of doing it when I actually have to start I think

Yes, we had lunch at 2:30

Ahw watch. :)

I'm avoiding PM, he's been on at me to go to the pub, then dinner with his ex gfs gf. I don't want to go as i suspect it is the 'i'm moving' chat, which i know has to happen, but i was out getting hammered last night, feel miserable and dont want to burst into tears with witnesses. :(.

Aw Snapespeare (it's Makeyerowndamndinner here in disguise) I think this man has broken your heart enough now.

catching up....wow snail that sounds wonderful - so pleased for you :D

Oh i know . I know it's coming, i just dont see that he deserves back-up when he tells me. :)

No, he should tell you on his own..so it isn't diffused, you know. Don't go if you don't feel like it.

Thanks singlemum, my most wow momment, not that it wasn't all frickin amazing... Was, he got up for a wee, I was a tangle of bedsheets and he just looked at me really weird, I was like ' what'
And he said, ' nothing, I was judt looking at you, you are just gorgeous'

Never in my life has this happened before......
:)

He should absolutely tell me on his own. Dinner plans in the week. He's just being a bit of a coward, because he won't like my reaction (whatever it is...) i retain the right to be told unpalatable things on my own terms, so we can then talk privately about what this phase means to the friendship. In the meantime, i am being delightful & clueless. Lovely Flatmate has brought me home a bottle of wine. :)

watch. I am utterly delighted for you. Really, truly delighted! :) this is immense!! :)

It's shocking, is what it is!!!

Shocking and unexpected.

:)

Yeah, agree with what you say. Hope the wine helps.

Male friends phone as been off since 3 this afternoon and no sign of him still. Looks like another night alone with the wine

I have 2 questions for you girls:

1. how to find a FWB? I'd love this but as soon as they've had a shag they disappear, generally speaking :( even though they tell me I'm attractive, good in bed etc. They seem to just lose interest once they've got what they wanted. So after a spell of this I've been avoiding sex completely but so horny its untrue.

1. damn it I've forgotten....be back later once remembered!

it sounds intoxicating watch..i'm sure the air around you is sparkling with magic fairy dust:)

ah yes...

1. how much do you tell new partners about past relationships? I get the feeling that they don't like it if you've kind of been around a bit...but then I feel I'm not being honest if I pretend to be all virginal....what do you do?

new partners shouldnt be so rude as to ask direct questions about my relationship history...really I think it's none of their damn business!

I'd not bare my soul to anyone unless I know then quite well, I always think it's a bit weird when people spill out their unedited life history warts and all.

As you can probably tell I take a 'play your cards close to your chest' approach :o

I have a friend with benefits, was seeing a lot of him this last month after little man went bed, met his family too. But we are JUST FRIENDS NOTHING MORE NOTHING LESS, but there will be no further benefits he got himself a girlfriend. But he kept coming back for more!!

I am open and honest and recently i have probably been around far too much to be honest. still 5 men at 24 isnt bad really. I am a good girl gone bad i have an angel halo in the drawer cos my horns look better

and congrats watch and to think you were wobbling the other day about it fizzling out cos you are going away, it doesnt sound like that will happen to me, but we all have these doubts!

OMG check out this extract from my latest e-mail on GSM...

"What can you offer me? Well.......everything.What can I offer you? As a former Officer RM,i will protect you.As me,I'll make you laugh,even if it's AT me and not With and hopefully become your friend.Your BEST friend. I will shower you with Diamonds and Gold 'cos that's what I do (I don't mean showering people with diamonds - just you - I'm a Diamond Merchant) and I have one of the rarest white diamonds in the World,internally flawless - like you I hope- and colourless,sealed in a pouch and graded by the AGL.It's waiting for Mrs.right.Waiting for my Goldsmith to set in Platinum and then onto a 24 ct.Gold shank.Not even Tiffany's makes those.No-one does.Except Mark Anthony Diamonds.I'm about to have a Summer adventure at the foreign place I know best.Let's have a coffee - I love espresso - and chat.Try me on.You never know.I.......might.......just........fit. S McQ. p.s.I hope you like fast cars".

Ugh, ugh, and double ugh. Does this man really think that's what women are interested in? He is a perma-tanned, obviously much older than the stated 45 years, bloke with a dodgy, bryll creamed comb-over.

I am... repulsed.

Male friends phone is still off and no sign of him. Enjoyed the bottle of wine though.

Fuckit lol, fantasist much eh?

See, this is why I like him:
He emailed me post gig, rather than text or call. He knew I was knackered ( we both were) obviously wanted to talk to me.
But was thoughtful and unselfish enough to email, so I'd see it in the morning, rather than text or call and wake me up.

Which is nice. And shows respect and thought. Compared to the same stage of my ex husband relationship, when he used to call me at 3am, a few towns away and tell me to come pick him up.