Welcome to the Turning Tavern III

[Crushinghard]

A continuation of the TTII thread for women unexpectedly finding themselves attracted to other women.

Glad to hear it G.

It didn't stop me doing this face though

polly - well, no luck for me this week, just tried to arrange the only time and day i could, but she can't make it that day. Sh*t! Oh well, have to psych myself now for the wait till end if May

the hing is, I could ve seen ger today as that was planned originally, but change of circs that I don't need to be in Lon today, and it's so bloody expensive on trains, that going just to see her for an hour or so (and she may have been busy) is just too indulgent! still - life! I wouldn't have cancelled if I KNEW there will be such a gap, still have to go tomorrow bu then she's busy .

thing, her

It's just i thought I'd be seeing her next weekend, so why go today and spend extra money, but of course if I knew it will be weeks, money would have mattered, I'm not that tight!

Oh Likea what a pain! very sorry. Is there absolutely no other time you could get to see her? Did you think about asking her out socially between now and the end of May? Or is she busy day and night until then? She must have sometime free surely.....

Hi out, look forward to reading your massive post tomorrow! Third time lucky

outmymind, just send your post in several sections, as the other stupid thing that happens is that you get loffed-out if you type for too long! happened to me!
polly. I'll chat to her this week at least. She's away for about a week, then wlil be jet legged for a few days AND her relative is coming back with her for a short while so she won't have time for two weeks at least, from end of this week. And hten it's a few days till the arranged thing. It's not the right time to be asking her out anyway, I need a few more meetings where I step things up. As I say, we never went out thetwo of us. I feel i have to see her at least once more before any more dramatic steps, as it's been 2 weeks already of not meeting and it's best to invite on the back of a happy recent meeting iykwim. Also I don't know whether she's as busy as that tomorrow, but she obv hasn't gone out of her way to see me when i suggested for tomorrow (at her place as usual but i had a good reason to suggest, not asked her out).

*logged out (not loffed!)

At least you'll get a chance to chat, that's good.

I love your typos 'jet legged' made me laugh a lot x

- oh yes, haven't even noticed until now the 'jet legged'! it's like I think of several things at once as I'm doing a few things on computer (while watching tv) and the similar sounding words get typed!

Jet legged is EXACTLY how I feel when I've been on long haul. It couldn't be more apt x

glad i made you both smile, MN is a great boost in times of sour news!

And breathe! Just a quick jump in - when you wrote her a note did you spell it out - I Fancy You? So absolutely no margin for error or wrong interpretation?

She sounds as bloody frustrating as my WIQ, fwiw same bad habits - hovering, grinning etc then ignoring. Grrr. Though it does sound as if you were as bad as each other.....

Anyhoo, do carry on!

So she had the opportunity to put you straight - if you were really misreading the signs - when you wrote to her. Or she could've spoken to you when the next school term started, even if she hadn't felt she could ring you.

I'm sorry she sounds like a complete head f*uck, for want of a better expression.

The only thing (I think) you could do is arrange to pick up your friend's dc one more time, and see how she is with you then.

haha sorry for the random unnecessary * in first line.

Don't worry about the length, some of us (self included) have waffled on for much longer