Time wasters need not apply, Soul Soothers come hither Dating Chat Part 11

[hatesponge]

Ta-da! Think this is the first one I've started.

I am still feeling somewhat feisty. Told my team off at work for being too noisy and was generally stroppy. Might have to go and start a row in AIBU or something!

So, dating, as you were etc

Not forgetting of course that I have a second date at the weekend!

Wait! Cross-posted with adult-baby!! Demand link! :).

Right, taking into account new information, I am sure PM is of low self esteem. I am sure PM adores you, loves you in fact. I am sure that around you PM feels at his most comfortable and at his best, but due to his low self esteem, depression, you are right, he holds back on the romantic side. Plus, I reckon he cherishes what he has with you and he doesn't want the dynamics to change, because he wouldn't want to lose his constant.

Meds for depression are definite libido killers! My ex husband took them for a while and sex was a definite no no. He also sweated like a pig when he exerted himself and he smelled different too, all as a result of the meds. Maybe there are things PM keeps private from you, but are also stopping him from taking things further.

Whatever his reasons Snape, he is there, in your life, and he makes you happy. And that is wonderful and should be cherished

Oh god, was I drip-feeding!!!??? . Nah, there are a few very personal things he's told me that aren't for public repetition that, again, don't put me off..his OCD is more crockery,cutlery based... I am an absolute slattern at washing up. It would never work out!

I was very drunk on Sunday night, I think he might have kissed the top of my head, when we were on a heap on the sofa. Very not good.

Tomorrows date it due any moment. Will of course update you, bit probably tomorrow. ;-)

I still say you shouldn't take his reluctance to become romantically involved personally. I still say he loves/respects you or you wouldn't have the relationship with him that you do have. I suppose the only way to get rid of the frustrations you have is to accept and enjoy the relationship as it is and make sure you have a good stock of batteries! And I think a kiss on the top of the head is lovely!

Snape would love to but I can't find him now and was too by the nappy to take note of the username.

And there was me thinking Cupid was tame

Oh chaos. My only chance of a distraction from my self absorbed whining & you've lost the adult baby! . .

Here you go Snape, fill yer boots! www.dailydiapers.com/megapics/index.php?cat=3

Boots? More like bucket..... Wait! I'm sure I recognise my old boss.... :).

BTW I think its clear I want more. Still waiting. Looking not too bad, half hour to clean the pig stye house up, get little man to bed and get changed, make up and hair done, and its completed, just.

hey everyone, well i'm glad alot of you think its strange that he keeps asking me to wear a dress, now i am wondering if i should go on this second date or not??

also i am seeing my fwb on friday and possibky saturday as well so wondering if i should bother with the date. not that i was planning on sleeping with him.

If I see him again I'll make a note of his username and provide a link

MLM enjoy yourself...and don't do anything I wouldn't do

Yes, I think the dress thing is weird. I think he expects ease of access.

Thanks chaotic. (places sick bucket within easy reach).

Well, it would put me of going notsure but I'm a hard woman, I am! On a serious note, I do think he is very out of order, making such requests of you and I would be concerned. Constantly asking you to wear a dress is a tad controlling and it worries me why he would want you to wear a dress.

Yes notsure I think we all agreed the dress thing is purely for his own benefit - so either ease of access presumptuous fucker or just plain old control issues. DON'T DO IT!

chaotic that is twice in two days I've nearly spat tea on my laptop - I will be sending you an invoice if you keep it up

Notsure - also as per an earlier post, one little fwb never did any harm in my book

MLM slutty is good, naice and slutty can go together imo. Updates please when you can

MissK

I've given up on the sites for tonight. I'm going to bed, unfortunately only with a book, but at least it's a good one night.

oh now i dont know what to do as i already said i will meet him on friday, but i am concerned about the control thing

also why do so many ugly guys message me. ive tried to message a few better looking guys tonight, what do you say in a first message? as some of the profiles have very little info on so i am lost for things to start conversation about.

are you on pof?

yes on pof and okcupid, cupid is slow, and pof is busy but with ugly guys or good looking ones with very little conversation.

My update, he couldn't stay the night. Bit we had a very pleasurable evening. He is everything I imagined and more, and oh yep, he certainly knows I wanted more than friends. Just wait to see when I next see him. need some sleep but feel too tingley. One very happy young lady. Now I will see what happens.and update as I know. He said he would text me when be got in. Aaah my stomach keeps flipping, and I still look good if I do say so myself.

Glad you had a good evening MLM .

I do have a profile on PoF but haven't looked on there for ages. Might dip my toe in the water there so to speak....

Had panic about date on Saturday when I discovered that XH thought the childten were going to be with me this weekend and I thought they were going to be with him. Am v busy with work over the next couple of months and had made a spreadsheet if when I'm where. Sent XH an email and got it wrong.

He is having them this weekend now (and knows I have a date )