I think my husbands cheating

[fizzyizzy]

Oh God. Hes just gone out to a clients house and I have been tidying his wardrobe. I wasn't snooping. I looked in his gym bag - its so like him to leave his dirty gym kit in there and I've found a phone. It's not his phone, I've never seen it before. There is no reason for him to have another phone. I'm worried that this is a secret phone. That he's having an affair. I can't believe im writing this. He is the a great husband and a brilliant father to our three month old little girl. We are happy and we hardly ever argue. We've been together 8 years we've been through so much together. But I have this niggling doubt. My hearts pounding. What do I do????

I can only assume MN TOwers support your stance as they continue to allow it sarah

HavePatience - you're right. Fizzy does not need this

Why does it have to turn nasty so often? We're all here to support each other not attack aren't we?

to call troll on any support thread and break the rules, is rude and disrespectful.

pisses me right off, and op if you are out there i hope you are ok.

Fizzy - take care, there are a lot of us here who do believe you, ignore the others. We're all still around if you want to keep posting when you get home.

I agree with oneof's point that the damage is now done. What I'd like to know is why MN do not act to sort it.

Other posters are NOT moderators and should not call troll. They should report to MN. If MN is concerned about activity they can monitor it/investigate or act if they feel other posters might be harmed (a ridiculous suggestion on this thread)

The consequence of these posts on any thread is harmful. I've seen it on lots and lots and only twice have I known it to be correct. The damage is always done at this point. Individual posts may be pulled but nothing is really hidden. It's a pointless exercise deleting single posts.

Many distressed posters hide behind a new name. Events in relationship can follow a very typical format or be unbelievable. it's not up to others to judge those posters.

I'd like a 3 troll strikes and you're out rule. If you have a genuine concern -talk to MN

...and now I will leave the thread to it's original purpose. Fizzy -I hope you are ok. The shock will be immense. I hope family are supporting you

What an awful situation to be in :( Take care of yourself fizzy and give yourself time.

hope you are ok Fizzy and know that there are genuine people here to support you x

Oh, I AM genuine, Moomoo...

Hope you are ok fizzy.

Fizzy, ignore the wankers, unfortunately there are plenty of us here who have been in your situation and we know that it is perfectly possible to write coherently whilst your life falls apart around your ears.

Hope you are ok x

Oh enough of the cod psychology. Fine, clearly not the place to express certain doubts, fine, but leave out the psychology crapola. Bullying, my arse. If posters can't handle the, shall I say, somewhat straight talking atmosphere of MN, best keep away.

Shan't

I'm well aware of the atmosphere of MN after 10 years here, ta.

Babs, what makes you think that your post aimed at Stratters is in anyway better than troll-hunting?

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Hope you are OK Fizzy and just not able to get online atm.

Please let us know how you are.

Yes Fizzy - hope you're ok & don't let the cat fight put you off!

Zombie thread, weird.

Bit early to be on the pop isn't it white?

ZOMBIE THREAD
3 years old ffs

WWWW has done this on a number of threads, I've reported all of them. So pointless.