Found Out My Husband is Sleeping With Escorts

[bagpus77]

[Message from MNHQ: This thread was started in 2012. It's a zombie thread. Just saying...]

Hi all,

I am a mother of two beautiful children ad the wife of a man I adore. We have been together always and last week I discovered he has been sleeping with escorts for at least half of our married life.

He denied it until there was no way out and so last night the man who I thought I could trust told me everything.

He was paying for sex each week with various different hookers or whatever it is they are called. He said he finds me dull in bed and that since the kids my need for sex is almost not there and he didn't want to bug me for sex.

I am devastated and just dont know what to do other than cry and feel so angry. I can't look at him anymore for betraying me and my trust.

I love him but don't like him much right now.

Zombie thread or not Anyfucker that was a nasty, vicious thing to say. I have no time for punters either, but you're hurting an already distressed woman grieving here, not the man in question. Really low and unnecessary.

I don't give a fuck, tbh

Thank you Brahms3rdracket! Sticks and stones and all that - ive been to hell and back so nothing can hurt me now! Apart from anything related to my gorgeous children x

Well that sums up your level of empathy perfectly then doesn't it @Anyfucker.

Very sorry for your loss and trauma Betrayed2

Indeed, my empathy for punters is zero

For women who blame other women for the ultimate selfish act of a fucked up man ?...I guess we can say that is the grief talking. It doesn't make it right though. The misogyny in those few words is immense and I can see no justification for that

Ewww who does that? I can't imagine how hurt you must feel right now.

It was men too so I should have just said people plying an illegal trade! 😜

If you are in the uk, prostitution is not illegal.

Male or female prostitutes, whatever. Every choice he made was his own. If you makes you feel better to blame sex workers, crack on. But his guilt and shame was self inflicted. No one held a gun to his head. And his appalling choices are still in perpetuity while you excuse them.

You're still attacking a hurting woman Anyfucker. Does this make you feel better about your life? Thought about changing your username to NastyFucker?

Nope. But you can call me that if you wish.

I am now in this very position. I also have two little girls and found out that my partner is sleeping with prostitute for over 2 years. I have tried to work at it but my heart is broke

Bmf85 please start your own thread.
This one is no use to you.
It's very old and has been revived and has slanging matches on it.
Start a new one in relationships and we can help you.

Yes I’m a goqod listener as I discovered exactly the same about my H last year

*good ffs