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pollyblue · 16/03/2012 19:04

Hello,
just wondering how things were going with you and your situation?

If you're still not sure if the woman you fancy has any feelings for you, can I offer you (possibly!) a bit of hope.....I don't know if you remember but I was in a similar situation last year - despite me getting a bit of a 'vibe' from my crush nothing came of it, she told me she wasn't gay etc so that was that. We were still friends, but (afaik) nothing more.

Anyhoo I saw her today, unexpectedly, for the first time in about 3 months and blow me down, she asked me out. Albeit if was a tentative, polite ask but she did, nonetheless. I did a good goldfish impression, I was so surprised. Just going to wait now, not get too excited, and see if anything comes of it.

So - there is hope! Grin

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pollyblue · 29/03/2012 21:54
Grin
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pollyblue · 29/03/2012 21:55

ys it is frustrating! it's something I've got in common wiht likeatonne, neither of us is quite sure what we're dealing with or the best way to proceed.

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AllotmentFreak · 29/03/2012 22:04

Jokey I think along the lines of what you and Love is... suggested. Love the chocolate egg oneGrin Grin

Loveisthemessage · 29/03/2012 22:05

Dealing with elusive, enigmatic ladies by the looks of things.

pollyblue · 29/03/2012 22:09

Right, I'll go along the lines of 'hope you're not dead and lying half eaten by your cat because I'd like to come round and melt an extremely large easter egg on your person.'

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AllotmentFreak · 29/03/2012 22:15

and then lick it all off slowly

Loveisthemessage · 29/03/2012 22:19

Dress code: bunny girls

pollyblue · 29/03/2012 22:19

oooh give that dirty mind of yours a rinse under the cold tap! Grin

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AllotmentFreak · 29/03/2012 22:29

Good luck with the email hope Woman In Question answers this time!

Of course should she answer we would like an update......Grin

LadyLibertine · 29/03/2012 22:35

I'm back to wave my willow wand and suggest to you Polly that you manifest your date with lady in question, you can make it happen. Don't email her again, try to hold off because you already did it, and you don't want to appear too keen....you just need to vibe with her to contact you and she will I promise! Your thought waves will reach her, you have to really think she will make contact though, no maybe's or doubts. It's called the Law of Attraction, and it works. Trust and believe.......good luck. Disappearing again.

Gay40 · 29/03/2012 22:37

Good lord ! What filth have I stumbled across?

Hope you're not dead and lying half eaten by your cat because I'd like to come round and melt an extremely large easter egg on your person.
Pure genius. She should be round like a shot Grin

Bricksy, however, will be going for the hair stroking and poetry reading approach.

Loveisthemessage · 29/03/2012 22:44

Dare I say it, really enjoying the "talking amongst ourselves."

Gay40 · 29/03/2012 22:47

Me too. I feel like I'm on a journey but without the peril.

Loveisthemessage · 29/03/2012 22:47

Now quite (bi)-curious to know AllotmentF's story...

Loveisthemessage · 29/03/2012 22:49

And the disappearing wand-shaker.

Gay40 · 29/03/2012 22:50

Maybe we should all try the willow wand and concentrate on the thought waves. I'll start by sending Happy Lesbian thoughts to the women you are all currently pursuing.

Loveisthemessage · 29/03/2012 22:53

Wonderful waves of womanly wantonness. Somewhere over the rainbow...

AllotmentFreak · 29/03/2012 22:54

Was many years ago Loveis....... similar to OP, nothing came of it.

pollyblue · 29/03/2012 22:59

God if I send any stronger thought waves in her direction my bloody head will combust.

Thanks for your thoughts though Lady, and good luck wishes.

Yes I think likeatonne will benefit more from the poetry/gentle stroking approach.

Allotment if Woman In Question doesn't acknowlege this email, I'll be bringing out my Terse Look. And God help her then! Grin

This is all very jolly isn't it...?

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AllotmentFreak · 29/03/2012 23:05

So....... the email is sent, now we polly waits with bated breath and a chocolate easter egg Grin

pollyblue · 29/03/2012 23:07

Gay I think you've hit on a brilliant sub title for all of the gentler/amusing/fluffy-kitten type OPs on here -

"all of the journey, none of the peril."

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pollyblue · 29/03/2012 23:08

Ah no, haven't sent email yet! Too busy talking to you lot (and fortifying self with tea) Grin

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Gay40 · 29/03/2012 23:10

Polly, what's the age range of your lady? Sorry if you have posted this elsewhere x

pollyblue · 29/03/2012 23:11

She's 50/51.

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Gay40 · 29/03/2012 23:16

So very similar to our other situation. For some reason I thought younger

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