Fuck Him and his Barbour - dating chat 10

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New thread - you know what to do :)

Yes I know, I'm just putting the worst possible spin on it due to my currently deflated self esteem.

Stop it!

i think emailing is a good idea, calling takes quite alot of courage and puts you both on the spot

I might just leave it actually. Feeling really bloody deflated, and sad today.

It doesn't help that my flatmate has met an amazing guy, and they are constantly hugging and kissing in front of me. I mean, don't get me wrong, I'm really happy for them. It just isn't very easy to watch when you are all on your own

It is hard being on your own, i feel alone today too, but have been back on oasis, and now on POF and talking to other men, like i said, you have to be prepared to get your fingers burnt, fall off the horse, pick yourself up, dust yourself off and get back on, so i HAVE! Sod him, i dont need someone like that. I am hoping that someone will love me, one day!

help! the bloke I blocked in POF Has tracked me down in face book and had a go at me for blocking him! he says I'm being a bit harsh!! Is that weird?

Block him on facebook then too, and no you arent being harsh!

Ooooh someone i really would like to squeeze.......he is fit, have to say, but probably out of my league, so i messaged him anyway, and he has replied. Maybe i will play the field for a while ;-)

And a maybe isnt a no, at least, maybe he wanted to let you down gently, but then why hand you his number? MEN MEN MEN, I just dont get them!

Two separate men MLM, but actually I agree that 'maybe' doesn't necessarily make him a knob.
Tolly that's out of order. What part of 'you blocked him' does he not get?

Sorry, trying to read and eat at the same time! There are some arses out there arent there! Sometimes i wish there was no dating and maybe i will just quit for a while, but i am now talking to a few men again and one ios very very hot!

Are you going to keep a few on the go, at least at this stage MLM. Have a 'stable' so to speak?!

Well if any of you ladies are in Surrey I have a few bloke friends who want setting up! 29-33 in each age, all perfectly normal

Yes please....pretty please, but i am greenwich area ish!

I plan to keep a few on the go for a long while! Play that field, i am of course only young!

yes he is all blocked now. bizarre. I hope they don't all end up stalking me!

so I put my picture back in and had lots more messages..
none that I like the look of but nice to have a little message :)

Always good to get messages, even if you dont like the look of them!

I have a few who i like the look of, three so to speak but one in particular....... And his name is Ad.

Tolly yes it is weird, why cant he see that his behaviour will only make you more certain that blocking him was the right thing to do!

yes.. he sent me one message and must have thought it hadn't gone.. so sent another five mins later! odd man. glad he's blocked! imagine if I'd have gone out with him for more than one date! well that's my first experience of meeting someone from that site lol. will put that down as bad luck first time round!

Yes, definetly do cos the one date i have been on was good, we didnt sort of attract each otehr but we still chat and are meeting again soon as mates! So dont just give up after one bad meeting!

Hang me if you like, but i already ahve another date lined up for monday night! But not getting too excited about it to be honest!

MLM, sorry about the original chap, but I high-five you for dipping your toes straight back in. hope you have a lovely date tomorrow. :) I think its wise to not have too much preamble & meet up before you get too attached.

And even better not this coming friday next i am going to see my best friend up north! YYYYYYAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYY!

Have now actually got a couple lined up, well three and talking to 5. Oh well. One is reallly fit as well has to be said, i would share his profile with you, but i want to finish drooling first. LOL.

Back on the horse. Felt shit for about 2 hours, then back online on the bus to picking ym house keys up and back to the old me again! Ish, still a little bruised!

Good for you MLM, very impressed by the way you are throwing yourself back into it all straight away

Make sure you keep us updated on how all the dates go.

Well I'm feeling a wee bit shite today. Went to my friends, and was telling her about my disastrous asking gorgeous guy out experience from Saturday. She said that he probably wasn't taking me seriously because I was drunk (he works in the bar so was stone cold sober) Now I feel like some desperate, predatory cougar who get's hammered, and lunges at younger men

have any of you tried eharmony? I ha a look and it seems a little expensive? is it worth the fee? or do they all end up on POF anyway?