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Why do men find girl on girl so much of a turn on?......

312 replies

oreoaddict · 13/03/2012 17:59

Hi everyone

Was just wondering really because when me and dp first got together he said that he didn't get it. Now though, he finds it a real turn on and just wondered why.

Women don't usually find the idea of 2 men together a turn on...........I think anyway.

Any thoughts? Would be great to hear from a mans point of view.

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MIssMarplesSideKick · 13/03/2012 20:36

Argggggghhhhh

flatbellyfella · 13/03/2012 20:45

Only joking. HONEST Wink

SparkyMcSparrow · 13/03/2012 20:49

flatbellyfella Your a man Shock How did I not know this??? Confused

You are also in my neck of the woods Grin

CuttedUpPear · 13/03/2012 20:50

There's a clue in the name

SparkyMcSparrow · 13/03/2012 20:52

Yes I know...I'm stupid Blush

flatbellyfella · 13/03/2012 20:56

Sparky, did you not attend the local Bath meet up ? I was there,

SparkyMcSparrow · 13/03/2012 21:02

No, I'm abit scared of meet ups Confused bit of a shy one in rl. well in public anyway

MyLittleMiracle · 13/03/2012 21:04

I think its that men like the (fantasy) of their wives/partners, being like that with another woman.

I once said to my exH, before we were married, how close me and my best friend were, and how we would dance around in our teeny tiny pjamas, at hers! And how we always were hugging and holding hands and what not, and he was like ooohhhh can i watch? I then being 16 got very confused! I was completely innocent of what he meant!

MIssMarplesSideKick · 13/03/2012 21:04

Did you stroke each others arms at the meetup?

Gay40 · 13/03/2012 21:09

The idea is usually better than the reality. This is true of most sexual fantasies.

flatbellyfella · 13/03/2012 21:13

Sparky. I didn't know what to expect when I was invited along, but a nicer friendly bunch you could not find anywhere. I was in need of RL contact at the time & it was good to meet honest people with true values.
I would recommend it to you to go to a meet up.

SparkyMcSparrow · 13/03/2012 21:17

I will give it a thought fbf

TheSecondComing · 13/03/2012 21:23

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oreoaddict · 13/03/2012 22:26

Wow! What a response!

I like how it's turned quite comical.

I have to be honest here, I have experiemented as a teenager(now 27) and I actually find it a little bit of a turn on, even though I see myself as a straight woman....Hmm Does that make any sense atall???......

I suppose really I found it interesting to hear from a males perspective to see if they really knew why, because I don't know why it turns me on when I feel like a straight woman.

Does anyone get where i'm coming from? I think maybe I should have named my thread "why are men and some straight women turned on by girl on girl action" Or is it just me?Grin Actually Confused

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AnyFucker · 13/03/2012 22:32

Now now love, we were not born yesterday

You wanted us to recount our own experiences, didn't you ? Grin

In great detail

< ahem >

MIssMarplesSideKick · 13/03/2012 22:33

There are mainly women on mn, if its a male perspective your after try dadsnet!

Original poster
oreoaddict · 13/03/2012 22:33

Oh god!! What have I said.

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Original poster
oreoaddict · 13/03/2012 22:36

That's a very good point MIss. How embarassingGrin

I did actually think that this section of MN was becoming more popular with men these days. Whoops! My bad. Of course though, I was expecting more women to respond with it being MUMSnet and all! Grin

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MIssMarplesSideKick · 13/03/2012 22:38

The only man who has posted so far, is only going as far as arm stroking!

niceguy2 · 13/03/2012 22:41

Was just wondering really because when me and dp first got together he said that he didn't get it. Now though, he finds it a real turn on and just wondered why.

The reason why is because he fibbed when he first got together with you so he didn't sound 'kinky'. Now though he's able to admit it.

What is it about a girl on girl which turns men on? No idea. But then I've no idea why boobs turn guys on? I mean think about it....why? I don't get it. But it just does.

SparkyMcSparrow · 13/03/2012 23:04

I'm prepared to get flamed for this but I think all women have it in them . All women look at other women and think "shes pretty" etc others may like watching two women kissing etc others may not. It doesn't mean that your gay. Does anyone get what I mean?

Dh has had quite afew gf's acquaintances in the past and most of them have said that they would quite like to experiment, or have with another girl and I think its true. I just don't think people admit to it for one reason or another. (Yes they probably were just saying it to get in his pants, but girls seem to tell him things, I think its because he's so open or he's a hypnotist Hmm )

I for one find women attractive but I am compleatly straight. I like men. But I have umm...experimented and possibly will do again dh is desperate for it Grin , but I could never have a relationship with a woman far too much hard work .

I think at the end of the day, everyone is different. Some people are into some weird shit, some people like safe boring sex, some people like to watch gay sex. Its all personal preference, some people "get it" some people don't.

SparkyMcSparrow · 13/03/2012 23:05

I will possibly regret writing that in the morning Confused

CardgamesFTW · 13/03/2012 23:26

It's tragic that people like it because it's "naughty." It says a lot about their views on homosexuality.
Also the idea that two lesbians would welcome a man suddenly joining them...because apparantly they didn't really care enough about each other and wasn't really having "real" sex?!

AnyFucker · 13/03/2012 23:31

Faux lesbionics for the menz, innit ?

Quite silly, really

My 18yo neice indulges in it for the boyz on FB. I expect she'll grow out of it soon.

SparkyMcSparrow · 13/03/2012 23:38

Faux lesbionics for the menz, innit ? Ha this made me chuckle Grin