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Why do men find girl on girl so much of a turn on?......

312 replies

oreoaddict · 13/03/2012 17:59

Hi everyone

Was just wondering really because when me and dp first got together he said that he didn't get it. Now though, he finds it a real turn on and just wondered why.

Women don't usually find the idea of 2 men together a turn on...........I think anyway.

Any thoughts? Would be great to hear from a mans point of view.

OP posts:
SparkyMcSparrow · 13/03/2012 18:02

Dh says because it looks pretty and it norty. I kind of agree with that. I personally prefer to see 2 girls than a man and a woman.

Does that help?

SparkyMcSparrow · 13/03/2012 18:03

*its Blush
Must start proof reading!

OneHandFlapping · 13/03/2012 18:03

Plenty of women like the idea of two men together. Slash is a very prolific area of fanfiction.

G0ldenbrown · 13/03/2012 18:03

My DH does not get it either. He says there's nothing sexy about two girls you definitely can't have.

Bibbo · 13/03/2012 18:05

lots of women like a bit of boy on boy: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yaoi

SparkyMcSparrow · 13/03/2012 18:06

I wouldn't mind watching a bit of man on man, just not quite as mainstream and dh is not interested!

CogitoErgoSometimes · 13/03/2012 18:07

Because men confuse quantity with quality. If one naked woman is a turn-on, two must be even better :)

TBE · 13/03/2012 18:08

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Birdsgottafly · 13/03/2012 18:20

Lesbianism isn't and hasn't been thought of as being really gay, in the way that male homosexuals are, it's part of a lack of respect.

So although the men who enjoy girl on girl action, may be homophobic, they don't process what they are seeing as two gay people, they just see two pair of tits etc, instead of one and as Spark said,it is prettier.

Plus, it's girls being bad, a taboo, in a way, so it's added turn on.

The women are taking control and wanting it, because there isn't a man involved.

sunshineandbooks · 13/03/2012 18:23

Well an erstwhile best friend of mine once had a night with two women. He said it was the worst sex he ever had, since they were far more interested in each other than in him. He thought it would mean two women paying him attention instead of one, and had a bit of a rude awakening. Grin

DebbieD78 · 13/03/2012 19:30

I think some men like it because they don't like looking at a penis. My OH says he doesn't get it because he can't identify with 2 women the way he can with a man with woman.

AnyFucker · 13/03/2012 19:40

what makes stockings and suspenders a turn on ?

what makes girl on girl a turn on ?

2 titillating threads in 2 days ?

ooh, anybody would think there were some articles in need of copy Smile

scentednappyhag · 13/03/2012 19:43

Because boobs.
Hth Grin

StarlightDicKenzie · 13/03/2012 19:46

I dunno. I kinda found broke back mountain a bit of a turn on!?

flatbellyfella · 13/03/2012 19:51

I would imagine men that like to watch two females making out, are unsure of how to give pleasure to a female & by watching what they do & how they do it educate themselves a little. Obviously a female knows what turns them on & is second nature to do to the other female IYSWIM
Well that's what I think it's all about.

maleview70 · 13/03/2012 19:52

Listen men might find the idea of two hot beauties together exciting but put 2 butch women together then its a completely different matter!

flatbellyfella · 13/03/2012 19:55

When I typed educate, my phone changed it to ejaculate . Made me chuckle Grin

AnyFucker · 13/03/2012 20:09

based on usage is it, your phone word-substitution, FBF ? Grin

flatbellyfella · 13/03/2012 20:12

No AF not a word I use very often in my posts.

AnyFucker · 13/03/2012 20:14

just asking... Grin

MIssMarplesSideKick · 13/03/2012 20:18

I think another man in a threesom would be competition and they may not be into men. With two women I can see a guy liking the fact he gets foreplay done to him, each girl is ready by foreplay with one another, he gets to fondle as much as he likes of both women who fight over the one cock, which he gets to put in whatever vagina he fancies!

I imagine the fantasy is much better than the reality.

flatbellyfella · 13/03/2012 20:23

Seeing as I am the only male here at the moment shall we give it a go?
I will go first Grin

AnyFucker · 13/03/2012 20:28

< runs screaming from thread >

SparkyMcSparrow · 13/03/2012 20:29

Shock flatbellyfella is man Shock
Really?

SparkyMcSparrow · 13/03/2012 20:34

*is a man
us man sounds abit primal Blush

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