Most women in prostitution don't want to be there, which is the reason why trafficking and grooming very young girls into the life is so common. It takes a lot of sexual trauma, violence and threats to make most women in prostitution do their jobs. That's because it is a violation of somebody's body, sexual desires and sense of self, to be penetrated by any man who comes along with money in his pocket. Across the world it is the youngest, poorest, most vulnerable women who are prostituted. This is not a coincidence and this is also what the men who use prostituted women want.
This article by a woman who was prostituted in Ireland demonstrates the reality:
www.irishexaminer.com/news/the-harsh-realities-of-being-raped-for-a-living-183894.html
"The nation is finally beginning to take a look at the intrinsic harm of prostitution. I welcome this because it is a harm I have understood since I was a 15-year-old prostitute, being used by up to 10 men a day. The one thing that linked those men together, besides their urges to pay to abuse my young body, was that they all knew just how young I was. They all knew because I told them, and I told them because it had the near-universal effect of causing them to become very aroused.
"When a man is very aroused in street prostitution that is a good thing, because it means he?ll climax quickly and the whole ordeal will be over fairly fast. I learned that on my very first day while sitting in the car of an elderly man who repeated over and over the thing that was causing him such sexual joy: ?Oh, you?re very young ? aren?t you? Aren?t you??
"That is the true, sleazy and debased face of prostitution ? the face that pro-prostitution lobby groups hysterically deny and attempt to conceal. Well, they cannot conceal it from me. I spent too long looking at it, too long being abused by it, and too long trying to recover from the soul-level injury it left behind.
"Many of the girls I worked alongside were not much older than I was, and one was only 13-years-old ? and there was no shortage of grown men paying to abuse her. Most of the older women had been working since they were our age or younger, and many of them had histories of sexual abuse that predated their prostitution lives. When a person looks at a 30- or 40-something prostitute what they forget is that they are looking, in most cases, at a woman who has been inured to bodily invasion since she was a prepubescent child.
As always a thread about men who pay to prostitute women has degenerated into "women choose it" arguments. Well let's look at the choices of men who pay for sex and the hell on earth they have created for so many women and children because of them.