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Close Encounters of The Intimate Kind! Dating thread No:8

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TimeForSomeAction · 13/01/2012 14:05

Continued from Makes post and in reply of:

Make just ask him. Why not? And of course you are going to be a bit of a mystery woman, he's only just blooming met you! Send him a message saying if he fancies unravelling a bit of the mystery then to get in touch because you would like to see him again. Be playful, be teasing, be fun, make him want you Make Grin

I'm pleased you are having fun but I do have to ask, is all this dating costing you loads of money?? New outfits etc Grin

OP posts:
Snapespeare · 05/02/2012 11:04

Grin at watch es post-coital updates from her phone with random full-stops. :)

Just think... you could have been doing that for the last two weeks or so....

watchoutforthatsnail · 05/02/2012 11:10

yes, i know. I am a fool.

I did say this to him, and he was like, well, i did tell you i liked you.

:)

he just text.

watchoutforthatsnail · 05/02/2012 11:20

And would you believe it, we are going to do it again :)

HedleyLamarr · 05/02/2012 13:10

Hurray for you Watch!

TimeForMeAndDD · 05/02/2012 13:47

Grin So, it was better than a night in front of the TV wrapped in the slanket then? And he sent a text afterwards too. This is ...... serious!

watchoutforthatsnail · 05/02/2012 14:02

LOL.
He loved the slanket. He called a pizza, which we ate.. snuggled in the slanket, naked. One arm hole each.

So classy :)

Yep, he text that it was a pleasure to meet.me and that he would really like to do it again.

I woykd too, but need to recover for a few days. It hurts to move ( I think hes overtaken Mr epic sex)

TimeForMeAndDD · 05/02/2012 14:15
Grin

While watching out for your update this morning I thought "well, watch is either still enjoying the pleasures of The Teacher or she is waiting for the plumber to come and fix the sink".

Anyway, apart from the sex what's he like? Has he got a nice personality? Good conversation? Is he a looker? Does he have a nice body? Is he boyfriend material?

watchoutforthatsnail · 05/02/2012 14:38

He's lovely.actually..obviously we.got on well on.the phone beforhand..funny, clever (phd).
Can talk random shit :) interesting. Listens but has lots to say..confident but not at all arrogant. Clean and tidy.. made.himself.drinks but cleared away and washed.up showered and left the towell folded on the radiator.
Very,very attentive :)cuddly, but in a.nice way, because I usually hate cuddles. ( woke.up at one point and I was spooning.him!!!

Adverage body, Adverage looks.
Bakes!!!!!!! ( is making me a chocolate ganash cake)

Quite posh,but in a nice way. 6 ft 1

Was lovely with my dog, sat and watched the.snow fall with me ( naked.at the window at 3 am)

Yeah. Hes nice, else I.wouldn't have spent 19 odd hours with him.

TimeForMeAndDD · 05/02/2012 14:53

Mmm, I think I could cope with one just like that... as long as he doesn't want to move in!

Actually, I had a dream a couple of nights a go that I did meet someone, he proposed and we got married. And I didn't wake up sweating, in fact it made me smile!! I must have had a bit of a blip.

He sounds lovely watch Smile I'm really pleased for you.

watchoutforthatsnail · 05/02/2012 15:09

We shall see, best behavior and all that.
He offered and Made me breakfast and we sat at my dining room table eating and nattering.

Hes nice. I like his cock company.

The downside being he's 24 and lives at home..

watchoutforthatsnail · 05/02/2012 15:14

Unhide your profile...... Maybe its time for dating?

TheOriginalNutcracker · 05/02/2012 15:15

Going to lurk on here for tips if that's ok. Totally sick of being single, but am very shy and so I need to work up a bit of courage.

TimeForMeAndDD · 05/02/2012 15:17

Well the upside of the downside is that he already has a mother so he won't be looking for a replacement wife so you should get the best of him. As for the age gap, that's nothing these days so I wouldn't worry about it, just continue enjoying his cock company.

TimeForMeAndDD · 05/02/2012 15:20

Well, I have been thinking along those lines...

Now the nights are getting lighter and all that...

I think I have a problem with the unemployment issue though, I don't like admitting I'm unemployed when I'm asked what I do so I avoid answering the question. Do you reckon being unemployed would affect a man's opinion of me cos I have it in my head it will.

watchoutforthatsnail · 05/02/2012 15:34

Depends on how you spin it.
You could say ' I'm unemployed'

Or, you could say you felt there was more to life than.just work, so.took a few years out, learnt new things, did some volunteer work, had lots of.fun. and are now.looking for a job that's.going to inspire you :)

Its all about how you present it.

Like, I have stomach.issues..I would never say to a man I have issues ( they can see that themselves). I just pretend it.doesn't bother me, don't hide being naked and prance about like I'm daisy lowe :) Noone has ever.ever, said.anything.

TimeForMeAndDD · 05/02/2012 15:43

Grin good idea! And it's not a lie because that's more or less what I've done! I can just leave out the bit about it being forced upon me.

watchoutforthatsnail · 05/02/2012 15:46

Exactly.
Its not a lie. Totally the truth :)

Just.said in.a more positve.and exciting.sounding.way.:)

TimeForMeAndDD · 05/02/2012 16:05

Smile Thank you. That's been bothering me for a while you know. But if I was to wait til I get a job to start dating I might be drawing my pension! Hmm

So, when do you plan on seeing Mr Teacher again then? How long is it going to take you to recover? Grin

watchoutforthatsnail · 05/02/2012 16:23

No point putting your life on hold while.you wait.for things to change :)

Erm, I don't know yet. Not till the weekend at least. And.a.few days I reckon.
I feel like ive been doing the shred! LOL

TimeForMeAndDD · 05/02/2012 16:27
Grin
lubeybooby · 05/02/2012 19:47

Time, watch is right about the positive angle - and tbh in todays economy unemployment is so rife they would have to be a complete heartless ignorant git not to understand. And you wouldn't want one of those types anyway - so no loss to you!

Years ago when I was on benefits with DD I met loads of men and it wasn't a problem for any of them.

MyLittleMiracle · 05/02/2012 19:48

I always if anyone asks just reply that i am a SAHM, Most dont have a clue what it is and feel too stupid to ask what it is!! Its a good cover up. I may later tell them, but atm, not telling anyone anything now!

StayForNoone · 05/02/2012 20:28

Grin watch, I have been chuckling at your posts! Glad the date went well!

Time - you couldn't help your unemployment, it's nothing to be ashamed of. I agree, get that profile activated and have some fun, it's a new year, new start! Smile

TimeForMeAndDD · 05/02/2012 21:57

Thanks guys. Smile I shall give it a go then, see what happens.

PoppaRob · 06/02/2012 00:26

Well done watch! Who really gives a shit about the age difference girl? I remember my 18 year old stepson telling me one of his mate's mum's late 30s friends had flirted with him at a party and he was unsure about what to do. I told him to go for it 'cos older women "know stuff" that young chicks are yet to learn. Two weeks later he sidled up to me when his Mum was out of earshot and told me he'd spent the night with "the MILF" and I was right... she did "know stuff". :-)

Think of your time with him as a worthwhile contribution to his ongoing education... a "teaching the teacher" kind of thing!