''I just WISH I could find someone worthy of a proper relationship instead of a long stream of fuckwits" Dating chat #6

[lubeybooby]

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well lets just say he definitely didn't measure up to the brazilian and whilst you could tell it could be physically very good shagging was all it would ever feel like itms. no real depth to him sexually - know that sounds weird.

and yeah i've got an uncomfortable feeling about his attitude after todays sex. why do men make such complicated crap out of what really need not be complicated?

that should have said today's texts not sex

well, I dont think it sounds weird, some men are just not very sensual, sex is just a race towards their own orgasm.
Other men seem to be much more into making a multi course meal of it.

Of course I can only speak from my own experience, and I've had more than enough 'quick snack' sex for this lifetime

he'd want to race me along to the finish line too probably but wouldn't be my way of getting there. also doesn't stop talking. sorry tmi probably but now i'm started lol - huge cock and confident in using it but probably watched too much porn at some point in his formative years.

hmm, well he has something going for him, I mean maybe worth a go if you fancy him.
Or maybe just in the interests of 'mumsnet dating research'..we could all learn from your findings
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definitely worth another go in the interests of research

but he can't use the 'haven't had sex in ages' excuse reason if there's a next time.

It's worth seeing what it's like next time without that excuse then? Just so I can live my life vicariously through you for research!

my ex husband used 'haven't had it for a while' pretty much every time

having slept on it i'm wondering if i will bother. he doesn't seem too fussed, seems more worried about having me as a friend. maybe i should get back on pof and date with the confidence of having got back on the horse (i'm so sorry for all the tmi)???

concerned i'm doing the 'i slept with him therefore i should see if something can come out of it' thing. might be a catholic childhood moment?

hmm.

Let the force guide you swallowed. It may only be one part of a relationship but sexual compatibility is an important one. To be "The One" he has to rock your world in every way.

And trust me when I say there is no such thing as TMI on these threads!

thanks poppa but you shouldn't encourage me - i'm an oversharer as it helps me with my overthinking.

I don't think we're a threat to literotica.com just yet.... but we could try!

Swallowed go with your feelings on this one. Forget the catholic thoughts.

I'm not having any luck. Mr P got back in touch Thursday and gave me his number. I thought his lack of comms was down to working overseas but he should be back now. I rang, went to voicemail and left a message. Didn't hear a thing back and so after a couple of glasses of wine decided I was getting the runaround so blocked and deleted. Not taking any crap from interenet daters. NEXT

Just catching up

Seaside, I'd ignore the prat. Flaky at best, and definitely a potential vanisher

Swallowed yeahhh get back to dating!

Adamachic good for you!

Still not the slightest bit bothered here. It's very liberating, and I hope I continue to be not bothered.

Time yes I shall continue with my 'curry' nights :o

Hi everyone! Update on my first ever date!

I went - but he didn't! So why is he winking at me the following two days? (Is he an idiot?). We emailed the arrangements for the date - he suggested the time and place and I responded - yes, that should be fine. Is that not an arrangement?

Can anyone shed any light on this? I felt a right lemon.

The only lemon is him, start!

You have another version of seasidegirlys on/off vanisher here. Run awaaaaaay and ignore from now on. Cheeky, flaky twat! (him that is!)

Start, the same thing happened to me a few weeks ago. Yes it was an arrangement, the tosser. Block him! I won't date again unless they come very near to me and text me to announce arrival, after the last time.

I had been chating to him an hour before, so don't feel bad it's hard to tell who these these wasters are.

I think it's pathetic - seeing as he was so very keen for about three weeks to meet me. Thing is, I don't mind waiting on my own at a pub when I'm meeting family/friend etc. but I didn't even have his contact no. - I am tempted to send him an email saying why are you winking at me now after you stood me up?

Just gave out my mobile no. for the first time to someone who I've been emailing for about a month - who SEEMS a nice guy! How do others feel about giving out their numbers? Men just immediately give them out.

I would only give me number out if I'd chatted for a while and want to meet them and have met people who haven't got my number before and have been glad after I've met them.

I give mine out if I'm meeting up with someone in case they need to cancel, but I don't expect them to give me theirs.

Yes, I realised on my 'no-show' date on Wednesday night that it was silly I didn't even have his number to contact.

What do you think about just asking the question by email?

It's put me off a bit now being stood up. Oh well, there's a first time for everything!

Luckily, I didn't buy a new outfit or anything (I wouldn't do that for a first meeting anyway). Just took me a long time to decide on what to wear and ALOT of courage (I'm quite shy initially as a person).

Anyone on datingdirect?

Hi start. It's unfair, uncivilised, absolute crap - and in my experience it happens often. The usual excuse is a family emergency.