''I just WISH I could find someone worthy of a proper relationship instead of a long stream of fuckwits" Dating chat #6

[lubeybooby]

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ooh i know that one - last guy i was seeing was a gorgeous brazilian who was fantastic in bed - lots to live up to.

fit boy is on his way! argh!!! not sure i'll do anything but still aargh!!!

Ok Swallowed I am saying have him over and shag him if that is what you need to hear. Just remember dont do anything your not comfortable with and makes sure your safe. Is this Fit boy? or am i getting mixed up.

Brazilian you say?...p'raps I'm barking up the wrong tree's..lol

yes, if you could generalise a whole nation of men by this guy i would recommend finding the nearest one to you and kidnapping them

interesting evening here. processing what to make of it.

hope thats interesting in a good way Swallowed? :)

Right, I'm intrigued! What happened?!!

Just catching up with everything, everyone has been very busy

Not much to report here, setup man every now and again needs to let me know he still thinks I'm a slapper - so pathetic it's sad. Just ignoring him, so he'll get bored soon. Just feel sorry for the other women he is speaking too

Had a date with someone that lives 5 mins away, don't think relationship material but he has potential to be FWB - which is very handy. Popped round his last night for a glass of wine and some pretty good sex

Chatting to two others but haven't managed to arrange any dates with them, both are saying the right things though so we'll see

Am now also waiting for SAF's report!

Swallowed, come on spill?

Mrs C hope you reported that creep, oh and glad you've found someone, see how it pans out.

I'm swapping cheeky messages with a guy from POF, very subtle and from his profile and judging by what he says sounds like he is just wanting something casual. The jury is out and I would have to meet him to see if we fancy each other but am a bit tempted as I quite fancy a new FWB myself, the other two I've had on the back burner for the past few years have fizzled out.

Jeez can't believe that guy is still bothering you MsCello, hope your still ignoring his words. Very handy for have a FWB on your doorstep , sounds like there is some potential for something more with the other 2

Definately meet up Adams and see what he is like

Has anyone heard from Charlottes, I don't think she has been on here since Dubai

other two? Well that's just greedy :D

in docs and on fiddly phone so can't say much but got back on the horse anyway! Christ it has been too long! :)

I have just heard that my XP is going around telling his friends that we are over for good because he doesn't wants kids!! What a twat, he forgot to mention the fact that he lied to me and told me he did want them but that we broke up because he was manipulative twat who was a compulsive liar who played games with people constantly!! I'm fuming

reckon i need a full night with no child stress and no its been ages issues to know full potential but quite promising given i'm seeing it as a pre first snag itms

Glad you got back on the horse had a good time Swallowed. Are you seeing him again

I find that problem with FWB's Adams they seem to fade out and /or want things to be on their terms.
Dammit, why dont they realise they're supposed to just come running when we snap our fingers

The two were long standing friends and yes it was always on their terms and I knew I was just a backup friend, but as I didn't have any feelings, enjoyed their company and don't go out much it suited me aswell, to a point had, enough of both of them now and need to look to pastures new.

This ones a real player but I might meet up if he asks, which he hasn't.

just testing my Xmas grin

Meant to say Swallowed, glad it went well. You sound a bit unsure, was he kinky as? .

Not sure what to make of this one. I was about to meet a bloke off POF for the first time last Saturday. We had previously been chatting for over 2 weeks. I emailed him to ask what time and it appeared he had blocked me. I asked for an explaination and received nothing. And then last night he sent me message asking how I was doing. Hmm really dont get it. Do I respond with a polite reply or do I just say WTF?

I'd be polite. But definitely ask why he didn't contact u and it seemed like he blocked you. But odd isn't it!

So tomorrow is coffee day. 2 questions ... 1 what do I wear? (my 14mo DD won't help me for some reason with that!) 2 what do you do if u dont fancy them? Quick coffee and then rush off.

I am nervous!

I have date no 6 on Sunday :) but look like a freak as I have broken out in the most attractive array of cold sores :( look like I have had botox as my bottom lip is so swollen so will be wearing a paper bag over my head. We are just popping out for a quick drink as both of us have our dcs this weekend but wanted to touch base, although it won't be late as it is a school night :).
I would go casual newbaby you want to look like you have made an effort but not too much of one in case you want to bolt! If it is not looking good get a friend to ring you and say you have to go and invent a reason. Hope you have a good time.

Seaside I'd be inclined to just ignore him, after all he ignored you, which is rude!
You are at the very least worth his effort to come up with a plausible reason for his odd behaviour.

You are a person, not a thing that he can just drop and then pick up again when it suits him.
we must not reward bad behaviour

Good luck newbaby if I dont fancy the person I generally try to avoid any thing that might be deemed flirtatious, and I try to bring things to a close fairly quickly but without seeming rude.
At the end I'd tell him I'll be in touch, and then I'd text or e-mail saying I enjoyed the chat but I just didnt feel there was enough of a connection for me to be comfortable taking things any further.
Or something like that!

Seaside, he blocked you? Block him.

adams - not sure i can answer it that meaningfully on a public forum he is certainly very confident . not really the shy type.

some weirdness today via text. i suspect he's over thought things and made a bit of a drama out of nothing. i will see him again but i think it will be a fwb's thing at most. would definitely like to try last nights proceedings again without the neither of us having had sex in ages malarachy going on (and the male haven't had sex in ages malarchy is pretty frustrating iykwim). wouldn't fancy one quick shag being 'it' for the getting back on the horse business.

seaside really odd and weird. i'd probably reply with something like 'oh i thought you'd disappeared' and see what he came back with. it'd want to be something very good to make up for that. bit of a cheek emailing like nothing happened

I dont think not having had sex for a while is necessarily a problem but if a bloke feels the need to tell me I take it as a warning that I'm in for a rubbish quickie after which I'll feel as if I've been 'practised on'