''I just WISH I could find someone worthy of a proper relationship instead of a long stream of fuckwits" Dating chat #6

[lubeybooby]

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Zany - I feel the urge to scrub myself with eco-bleach and some hessian and chomp down on lots of e-numbers organic food at the mere suggestion. at the thought!

Not heard from tomorrow's date and have had a dreadful week so was looking forward to it.
Question is do I text or not? I thought something like 'are we still on for tomorrow? don't want to waste time on my bikini line if not!' What do you think?
Remember i am a sex goddess! No more worrying about my rice pudding belly.

No harm in asking if you are still on, don't mention the bikini line in text

yeah i'd stick with, 'are we still on for tomorrow' myself

Oh ok I will send a dull one :) bet I would get a quicker response to the other one though

Even the dull one worked :) so on date number 5 tomorrow. I really need a nice evening, my lovely mum had another small stroke this week and it has knocked me for six, I thought she was recovering.

That's the spirit daisy! And do the bikini line anyways, it will make you feel good

oh date number 5! i thought it was first date and you were texting him that he was onto a sure thing with the bikini line message sorry about your mum! hope you have a lovely night tomorrow.

Sorry to hear about your Mum Daisy

Me too, thought it was a first date even though I remembered you had met someone.

No same one :) mum is out of hospital and so fingers crossed she will recover and not have any more (third one bless her, one big two small).

Forgot to say, Diasy, sorry your mum isn't well.

everything crossed daisy - bless her! you must think it's all over and then bam it happens again hope that's it now.

Has the stroke affected your Mum much Daisy, physically I mean.

God Ill never understand men. Had a date all set up for tomorrow. E-mailed him to confirm plans tonight and hes blocked me. WTF happened between Wednesday night at 11pm now? Ive txtd him and and no reply. Jeez POF is crapola. lol

Can I ask, who has just announced that they are 'in a relationship' on fb. I know their RL name, obviously, but sometimes get muddled up about who is who on here. and congratulations.

adamchic it's Zany :o

Seaside - a vanisher or should I say yet another vanisher. So weird when they do that!

seaside, I'd say that 'WTF happened between Wednesday night at 11pm now' was that you found out the bloke is an eejit, lucky he let you know before you wasted any of your precious time on him
no second chances!
dont take any prisoners!

Lubey, Thanks, I knew that No, I did think it was Zany.

Loved your FB thing, tonight btw Lubey. Not brave enough to repost.

I think we all have to accept this sort of thing on POF, Match, whatever. If it's any consolation, I've dated this way for a few years but got stood up for the first time recently.

Thanks girls. Had a really a lot of nice convos with him and just very confused. Oh well. Next

seaside, agree it's weird. I had similarly weird with the boxer this week, mentioned upthread - basically messaged each other on POF, he said did i fancy coming for a drink (though we didnt agree a day - but clearly some interest on his part), then he asked to add me on FB, I said yes, he added me, then within 48 hours deleted me without a word!

I suspect he may have seen my fat photos from last year and that put him off. however a) he is no oil painting himself so in no position to judge others and b) if he is too stupid to work out what are old and new photos he is deffo not the one for me!

I would say next but there is so little out there to choose from, instead I'm excited that I'm getting a new washing machine and tumble dryer tomorrow...at the moment that's frankly more use to me than a man!

Nice to hear things are going well Zany.

I think I was very lucky with my first date on POF as that was a three hour chat with the Very Nice Man.
We just clicked immediately and I wanted to snog him senseless

Now ten weeks later I have met his parents, his sister and one of his DC and have spent five nights this week with him. I have resisted the urge to tidy his house but he is doing it slowly!!

I think he is besotted but still wary after his wife walked out on him. I am just hugely enjoying someone funny and witty and kind who likes me! and lots of sex

LittleWarmHouse, is tidying the house a KPI he needs to meet?

Poppa I posted about his house before. He didn't take me there for a month because it is the messiest most cluttered house not yet featured on a TV series. He has got into a big muddle for various reasons including taking in his elderly parents during a family crisis. And he admits to a clutter gene.

The wise ladies of MN advised I shouldn't tidy/criticise and I have held back with admirable restraint apart from washing the kitchen window and planting some flowers outside.

He comes to my house which is an oasis of tranquillity in comparison and enjoys the respite!

It is all wryly amusing because my XH was a messy bugger who I ran around after. Never again...