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Plenty of Fish, yes, but where are the men? Dating chat thread #4

999 replies

lubeybooby · 12/10/2011 15:14

A new one (again)

Dating, internet dating, all kinds of dating.... chat about it here.

Off you go! :o

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prettypurpledaisy · 14/10/2011 14:09

Thank you. Good luck to all the others who have dates tonight.
I will report back tomorrow :)

lubeybooby · 14/10/2011 14:14

The vanisher returns!

Says his call time ran out and to please ring him because he wants to meet tonight. I don't feel like a date tonight now....and he called me hunny arghhhhh

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TimeForMeIsFree · 14/10/2011 14:15

lubey you have a new hairstyle to take out!! You should go! We have notes to compare tomorrow!

lubeybooby · 14/10/2011 14:21

I've called him and arranged it for tomorrow :o I just feel a bit urrgghh and want a sofa night tonight.

7.30pm tomorrow and we are going for a meal. Sorted :)

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TimeForMeIsFree · 14/10/2011 14:23

Nice one Smile

Zanywany · 14/10/2011 14:50

I just got a message asking if I will chat to a fit married man. My reply was Fit - Yes but married = No Grin

Zanywany · 14/10/2011 14:50

Nice one Lubey

TimeForMeIsFree · 14/10/2011 14:53
Grin

I would have replied "Fit maybe but not fit to be married!"

Zanywany · 14/10/2011 15:02

Hold me back - here's his reply

lol perhaps i should have fibbed .....very sexy pic though

do u work out too?

lubeybooby · 14/10/2011 15:04

The possible dodgy ex boss one hasn't messaged since the other night so I've just blocked him. The silence tells me it is him and he's waiting for me to realise...

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TimeForMeIsFree · 14/10/2011 15:05

Grin creep! I hate it when married men so brazenly hit on me. If they have so little respect for their wives there isn't going to be much for any woman they get involved with.

Give him what for Zany!

School run beckons so will catch you all later!

lubeybooby · 14/10/2011 15:09

Oh yuck zany what a creepy tossbag. ugh

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Zanywany · 14/10/2011 15:20

I just asked him if his wife knows what he's doing Grin

stayforappledunking · 14/10/2011 15:49

Time - Have a great night tonight, I want to know ALL details. EVERY. LAST. ONE. Grin

Wriggly - As above!

Shiney - What a totally gorgeous dress! You will look stunning. Sorry to hear about your dad :(

Lubey - Loving the new hair! You look great!

lubeybooby · 14/10/2011 16:59

Thanks stay :o

Time... what time is your date? Are you all excited? :o

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TimeForMeIsFree · 14/10/2011 17:20

Grin Thank you stay I will give a full report upon my return.

Date is at 8pm lubey I've had a couple of nice and funny texts from him which made me feel a little bit better. But I am nervous!!!

stayforappledunking · 14/10/2011 17:29

Time....for wine! Grin

lubeybooby · 14/10/2011 17:43

Ooooooh 8pm

:o

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lubeybooby · 14/10/2011 19:12

47 minutes to go Time :o

Have a great night!

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prettypurpledaisy · 14/10/2011 19:26

Oh well here goes, wish me luck :)

lubeybooby · 14/10/2011 19:42

Good luck daisy! :o

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Zanywany · 14/10/2011 19:44

Ope it oes OK Purple

Stupid laptop keeps missin letters

Don;t foret to updat Time, relax and enjoy

lubeybooby · 14/10/2011 23:24

Well you must all be having a good time if the quietness of the thread is anything to go by Envy

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lubeybooby · 14/10/2011 23:26

Adoringly belted out to my dearest fluffiest cat....

NEVER MIND ILL FIND, SOMEONE LIKE YOUUUUUUUUUUUUUUU, I WISH NOTHING BUT THE BEST, FOR YOUUU TOOOOOOOOOOOO, DONT FORGET ME, I BEG I REMEMBER YOU SAID, SOMETIMES IT LASTS IN LOVE BUT SOMETIMES IT HURTS INSTEAD

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TimeForMeIsFree · 15/10/2011 00:16

Grin I'm back! I survived! Bit pissed fresh so please excuse anything that may occur in this post.

Right. First sight, nice. Nicer than photo's but not quite as 'manly' as expected. very pleasant though. Had nice evening, no gaps in convo but that mainly down to me, didn't feel any spark or any tingle in my loins, didn't feel any urge to kiss him or punce on him even after wine (2 large glasses but I am a lightweight) didnt feel urge to shag him or anything, when he leaned in and touched me didn't feel anything! Nice bloke but don't think I fancied him.

Came home, he gave me lift home, no attenpt at snog, not even a kiss goodnight, nada! sat there thinking 'what the fuck do I do here, do I wait for a kiss, go in for a kiss, or what!'. No sign of him going in for a kiss so I thought fuck it, I'm off in for some Nutellla and peanut butter!! He says;s "we can speak tomorrow, you can let me know what you think and we can decided where we go from here", I say "yes, and so can you". I open car door, tell him to drive safely and come in house. End of date.

I dunno. Nice chap but think he a bit 'wet' for me. Caught him eyeing my boobs me up a couple of times, got the impression he liked what he saw, but I dunno. No spark. Not for me anyway. And do blokes NOT kiss you out of respect?? I at least expected a kiss on cheek, and I was wondering what it would be like to snog him, thinking that would help make my mind up but he seems to be waiting for the next 'chat' to see what we both thought of each other before he goes any further! Eh??

Anyway, if there is no sparkl now is there likely to be? Do I agree to another meeting to see how things go, to see if anything develops or do I just move on?? He is a nice chap but to be honest I can't see myself shagging him being with him in a relationship. But am I writing him off too soon? We had a good laugh and it was pleasant, just not heart stoppingly, butterfly effectingly wonderful. IYSWIM/.

Answers by 10am tomorrow morning please Grin

So much for changing the fucking sheets and slathering on this fucking tanning cream!! HUH!