Porn

[EmpireBiscuit]

Looking for some sense to be talked into me...(and you all seem like a pretty honest bunch!)

I discovered on Saturday night that dh sometimes watches porn online when alone in the house. He says he doesn't do it often.

Now, I think I'm maybe overreacting but I feel disgusted. He knows I have strong feelings against strip clubs etc and I am at a loss to how he thought this wouldn't bother me.

I am massively insecure and can't get the thought of him pleasuring himself looking at prettier, thinner woman and comparing us. We are still talking etc but I feel odd about him seeing me naked, or even touching (let alone being intimate). I feel sad thinking about it all.

What do you all think? Huge over reaction or would you have similar feelings?

Thanks!

For anyone that says shock horror my husband has watched a bit of porn, i would really say.... for god sake grow up!

With respect also AF, you are taking a chunk of what is going on, not the whole picture.

Well, that's useful, MAM

You carry on doing that

< shrug >

I don't happen to agree that my orgasm is worth the inherent risks and exploitation of women within this industry.

It takes a quite staggering level of arrogance to think that it is

and with respect to all, women are not the down trodden things that people believe, we also exploit men.

The day when men are physically and mentally damaged purely for the sexual enjoyment of women, MAM, then I may concede your point

I know quite a few women that give a fab blow job for a new wardrobe. It lasts say, 5 mins, the wardrobe lasts a season.

"MAM" is a commonly used expression for "mother" in my part of the world, so I have to stifle a little smile when I re-read my posts

Oh but it happens AF it really does.

I actually like the MAM thing too...

I'm just a sucker for Any Fucker!

How grim

Gosh, I am glad I am not part of your social circle

Am sure the feeling is mutual, however

You see in my world...

1. the women go out and earn that wardrobe all by themselves or...

2. they are with a partner who wouldn't expect sexual favours unless it was a mutually-enjoyable act and would be quite happy to contribute to that wardrobe without thinking their partner was prostituting themself to attain it

hey shit happens

doesn't make it right, nor acceptable, nor clever nor even very amusing

With every bob of the head "that's another skinny belt" "that's another pair of wedges" "that's this seasons nail colour"

Lovely

Its not a perfect world though is it. I happen to like what it brings. I'm neither down trodden nor some sort of "womens saint"

I may be outing myself as not a very avid follower of fashion there

However, I give my husband BJ's because I get pleasure out of giving him pleasure

Fancy that ! How novel..

We can only be victims if we allow it.... We can turn it round and triumph

Well, I feel a smidgen sorry for you, MAM

I don't think you know what a mutually-respectful relationship should be like

Im very glad you do AF.. I'm personally not a lover of penile sucking... I do it not because i have to but i also like to give him pleasure.... Every now and again.

Emily, I was just stating a point that I know some women do...

Now thats not a nice thing to say AF