adams - i shall say nothing of the 'settling ' thing. only because ive done it myself far too many times myself.
sponge- that is super creepy. It has to be the same man, because, who would send that? are we allowed to post user names on here? Take it pof hasnt thrown up anyone interesting yet?
zany - yeah. thats bound to get him lots of response... lol. any dates set up with my body?
Shoney - im sorry, but i would be freaking out and running 100mph in the opposite direction from him. I really would. AND, i suspect if it was one of us saying that was happening to us, you would be saying the same thing - RUN!! So you do now know he has MH issues, and you also know hes not joking about the marriage thing. The sex was crap. you dont really like him all that much and have no intention of being faithful or marrying him, but to him, by saying you are exclusive... you are playing along and maybe consenting to the marriage thing. I dont want to be mean, but you could end up in a very upsetting/trickey situation here.
Im still swooning about mr guitat player. Hes text me this morning and had a bit of a natter, and thurs plans have been firmed up and he said, if i didnt mind could he call me later.
:)
He seems very lovely. Im getting that little excited momment when we talk. And im more convinced hes not a player at all. There has been no sexual flirting, no inuendos, no smut. Now, i like a bit of filth myself... but im not going to go tramping down that path ( quite literally) unless he starts it. Because there definatley seems to be some kind of connection. But of course its a false connection until we have met. BUT, its definatley better than having no connection at all and just meeting someone to see if something might happen.
ANyway - its sunny, work is quiet and im swooning.