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Internet love rat...revenge tips please?!

137 replies

Littleblue · 04/08/2011 10:49

Been seeing a guy three months... turns out he is running no less than 8 other women , I have their email addresses.he doesnt yet know that I know..we just got back from a minibreak abroad..and he has booked a similar break with one of the others the same time as he booked our flights..he has sent some of them pictures that he took when we were together..scenery..im shattered..but coldly furious..cant sleep/eat

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Littleblue · 06/08/2011 09:16

we all have the same photo of his manhood..maybe we should bring out a groupcard at christmas...

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FabbyChic · 06/08/2011 10:03

I met someone on a dating site, spent a whole week together every single night, flowers, perfume, love cards. On the Monday he said it wasn't working and just fucked off. He went back on the dating site, I contacted every female within a 30 mile radius in his age range and told them he was an arsehole.

Wasn't the first time I'd done that either! I've met a few pigs.

AnotherMumOnHere · 06/08/2011 10:26

Call it the devil in me ......... but i'm absolutely loving this thread but unfortunately cant add anything as there are so many devils before me. GrinWink

Littleblue · 06/08/2011 11:18

I could make him a facebook profile... would have alot of fun with the 'about me' section.. he's not on there..and I know why now..lol. I have plenty of photo's of him.. Grin

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AnotherMumOnHere · 06/08/2011 12:24

As in the words of Dick Emery ........... oh i know it shows my age ..... you are awful .. but i like you !! Grin

HedleyLamarr · 06/08/2011 12:31

Do it Littleblue! It would be funny.

FabbyChic · 06/08/2011 12:33

Set up the profile! Its the first place people look for someone at least then girls/women will know about him and be warned.

Littleblue · 06/08/2011 12:37

I'm that age too..lol Wink

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Littleblue · 06/08/2011 12:38

That's exactly why I thought of doing it.. if I do , the dust's gotta settle first methinks.. make him less likely to notice..I would imagine he's keeping a vary wary eye atm Grin

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Littleblue · 06/08/2011 12:40

My friend said to me yesterday she's gonna be careful not to piss me off..lmao..am discovering a whole new set of skills..maybe even a career LOL

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Littleblue · 06/08/2011 12:47

shouldn't be enjoying myself with this so much.. but if I do that,i'm so gonna put that recipe for rabbit stew on his wall..maybe a link to a viagra store..oh and and a monkeyspanker...

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oleblueeyes · 06/08/2011 13:21

Give this bloke a break. He's not a nice character, but he hasn't broke any laws. Why do you feel the need to do all this Facebook stuff etc.
You've dodge a bullet. Thank the lord and move on.

shesgotherlipstickon · 06/08/2011 13:54

There's a fine line between dignified/necessary revenge. Which is what you have done and leaving yourself open to a police charge of harassment.

Sorry to be the party pooper and all, I'd have done the same as you as these other women were making life changing financial decisions. Visa, house, work, etc.

But, anything else, despite bored people of MN egging you on, could see you slapped with a restraining order and in trouble yourself.

AnotherMumOnHere · 06/08/2011 14:02

So true SGHLO, OP you have done the damage you need to do and warned the others of what he is like. Maybe best to let things lie now. I would keep an eye on him though.

HerHissyness · 06/08/2011 14:05

What kind of person emails a picture of his cock? seriously?

crispyseaweed · 06/08/2011 14:06

Go on www.gogetyourrevenge.com

Send an e mail to the other women, and go round to his place together and confront him .

AnotherMumOnHere · 06/08/2011 14:08

HH I know its so sad but so so many men are so immature they do this thinking it is smart - I ask you !! Pathetic !!

Littleblue · 06/08/2011 14:12

It's amusing me to plot idly.. but no , I have done what needed doing..I have stopped him in his tracks with these particular women..who amongst themselves have as much , and in some cases considerably more reason to be seriously hacked off with him.. as for confronting him together..that would be hard,this man doesn't limit himself to just british women.. they are from all over the world!

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Littleblue · 06/08/2011 14:13

Ive had a few men send cockpics.. I must have something about me that indicates I get overcome with desire when confronted with the last turkey in the shop Grin

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HerHissyness · 06/08/2011 14:58

littleblue Grin

i swear if anyone sent me a cock picture, I'd never speak to them again.

I meant male prospective date by that btw, don't you all go PMing me with cock-pics just to shut me up!

crispyseaweed · 06/08/2011 15:03

Sorry its Go get revenge on your ex.com

Littleblue · 06/08/2011 16:29

It took a long time..and alot of laughter re rudeness online before he sent that.. then he was apparently crushed with embarrassment..begged me to delete etc... all cock n'bull..he must have the most published member on the internet .. the other senders of such pics were swiftly blocked :)

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Littleblue · 06/08/2011 20:18

depressions rolling in.. bigtime

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HerHissyness · 06/08/2011 20:34

LB, don't get depressed about it, thank god you found out when you did.

There are plenty of good men out there, so I'm told. Perhaps the cock-pic was a red flag.

course you could get that pic put on a T-Shirt and post it to him.... save him the embarrassment of having to hit the button again... Grin

Littleblue · 06/08/2011 20:40

omfg... genius Grin

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