Internet love rat...revenge tips please?!

[Littleblue]

Been seeing a guy three months... turns out he is running no less than 8 other women , I have their email addresses.he doesnt yet know that I know..we just got back from a minibreak abroad..and he has booked a similar break with one of the others the same time as he booked our flights..he has sent some of them pictures that he took when we were together..scenery..im shattered..but coldly furious..cant sleep/eat

Good call (again) Bogey... You are AWFULLY good at this

Call him up and ask him what the HELL is going on! Get in there FAST!

hee hee hee!

Also happy to send some porn penguins to this loser if that'd help

Revenge served cold! Congratulations

Can someone help me with a thread title to find Penguins 1 - can only see Penguins 2 in Classics - and the links to other threads ^ don't work in my phone!

also waiting for update, this is great! go for it littleblue give him a righteous bollocking!!

I have had a similar happen to me, infact it was with my baby's father - hense why I am a single Mum now! He was on Dating websites the whole time I was pregnant, and texting, phoning and probably meeting these other women. Infact he texted one woman 65 times while he was in hospital with me when I was having a c section!

What I did was create another profile on the dating website, using the same photo he had used, and all of his search criteria, and called it 'cheating boyfriend'. Therefore if anyone did a search for his criteria, his profile would come up with my 'cheating boyfriend' one next to it, and then I explained my situation in the 'about me section'. I had about 12 women write to me, some just offering me advice, but some had actually spoken to him. Unfortunately, my 'cheating boyfriend' profile got deleted after a few days.

I also use to create fake profiles on the dating website, and write to him, and arrange to meet him etc, just gave me some pleasure thinking of him driving out to some pub to meet some imaginary woman. What a b*stard, he is still on these websites even now, and he is engaged!

Last I saw..three of the other women had forwarded my missive.. (which was a copy and paste of both his inbox..and sent files) to him in a wtf stylee.. he has changed his password now..and sent a three word apology..I might create a page that will appear as a google hit..should future women research him..

i wonder if there's an internet hall of shame we can add these arseholes to..lol

I love the idea of a hall of shame!
Do it!
(love your name too littleblue it's the name I wanted)

There did used to be a website specifically for ex chaps. So that you could warn other women, I'm sure I added my DD's father on there {grin}

what was it called lol..love your name too dollytwat!

He's deleted his email..and is clearly chasing his own arse around the internet cleaning up after himself..hehehe

Shame you didn't forward a copy of his email to you everytime he sent one!

ive got all his emails in a file... but only the ones to me

Did you ring him in anger?

No.. I didn't , tbh , I was scared I would cry..and I would have hated myself for that..odious philandering cretin , quiet dignity was my preference...that and machiavellian shenanigans with his email account.
I'm feeling it now , was carried along on a wave of rage and riteousness..now I have the grief bit to do..I thought we were solid see..and that makes me question myself so deeply :(

Like you said, he was good at what he did. You also avoid probably financial scamming from him in the future. These things happen to the best of us, please don't start questioning yourself, get back out there. Mr Right has to be hiding somewhere :)

I must be lonelier than I thought to have fallen for it I guess..but yes , he is a master at this... what a pathetic excuse for a human being... thank you :)

Id send them all an email telling them about each other so they know what and who they are dealing with.

Sounds like a serial cheat!

Shame on him.

I did fabby ;-)

www.liarscheatsandbastards.com

or there's always...

www.mingers.com

reactions set in... very weepy :( ty blobchob.. makes a note

one of the emails didint deliver.. the visa woman unfortunately..something to do with an ozzy email address methinks.. bugger

got him...lol , resent and deleted dummy account once she received it

Nice one! Bet he's not been texting you all day now!

No..he's remarkably quiet .. she thanked me , bless her..I'm glad I got through to her , she was being used very badly..he told me he wasn't remotely attracted to her and she was "desperate for a man" he really is a piece of work...