Divorce papers served - have I done the right thing?

[Wisedupwoman]

Had to name change again to be on safe side.
Been posting on other thread - hope followers recognise this.

H gone five weeks ago after second affair in 4 years was discovered by me but not before he gave many, many clues and slip-shod attempts to keep it 'secret' from me. H wanted out and would have known my reaction to finding out hence i think he took this way to force my hand. Heartbroken as long, long relationship with both adult and teenage DC's involved.

Today the divorce papers went to court to be served. The therapist I'm seeing commented that this has been quite quick. This has set up train of thought which goes 'was this my fault, am I assuming too much here about what H really wants, is he such a monster........'

Need ongoing support about this please......

Oh and DH is picking up his new car today so is going around like a nineteen year old. (I wish!

Well, that's one way to get two Saturday monings :) Shame about the headache though. Hopefully you'll sleep better tonight with this decision made!

And you will never hear from me that I have asked him to, or taken him back. It's over Phew!!

Not more exciting for me no.... and I'm not even out for dinner tonight!

Housework, decorating, trying to finalise plans for trip, paperwork... oh the excitement...

Who needs exciting when you can do relaxing?

I'm sure girl-dogs don't act like this!

see...its that penis thing again....

Well it's all fun and games on MN this weekend. Cars, housework, decorating, stinky dogs, relaxing -

And I have to return much-awaited stilleto's to shop because they're too bloody small! Still, it's M&S so I can have the right size today..... They are absolutely beautiful......(sigh).

sugar the stinky dog thing is awful. One of ours is very fond of fox poo... and nothing seems to shift the smell.

Wisey M&S shoes! Can you do a linky thing to them from the website Please? I am trying to convince myself that I don't need any more shoes, of course!

my husband calls me 'Imelda' and I don't even think I have that many.

don't know how to do this but

www.marksandspencer.com/Insolia-Shoes-Womens/b/547472031?ie=UTF8&pf_rd_r=1T2TJRC74F6JP02SET6V&pf_rd_m=A2BO0OYVBKIQJM&pf_rd_t=101&pf_rd_i=43126030&pf_rd_p=475115433&pf_rd_s=left-nav-2

the bottom row first pair of snakeskin design ones.

I'm sure i've mentioned before that i'm a bloody technophobe and didn't even understand the MN instructions on how to link! bleedin ignoramous that i am. anyway, enjoy if you can find them!

Wisey - we can't have you letting the side down

type [ twice
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if you want to say 'here' or whatever leave a space after the pasted link, type whatever you want then the 2x ]

Try again!

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Aha!

Afternoon Chipping.

Gawd help us, he didn't pay the leccy - hope they'll pursue him since it was his name on the bill. Bet they don't now that i've changed the DD to my name now....bollocks.

WTF so, so right to go to court.

considering ringing his parents and asking them for the money!

Not going to panic but may be eating dust for the next 6 months.

Much better - gold star :)

Do you mean these

If not, click on the ones you do mean and re-do the link! :)

Wanker. Another email to your Sol. Call the electricity company on Monday and make sure they know it's HIM that owes them the money. Whose name was on the bill?

Just have to close down the lappy and re-start... it's on a go slow... but will be back in a bit (with lunch! yum)....

It won't let me paste for some reason, but no they arent the ones , they're on that page though down the bottom, really high ones.
what am i doin' wrong here? mutter.....

Throw some crumbs my way Chipping, hungry mouths to feed here....

You, my friend, can have a whole toastie :) or two like me if you are a fellow piglet

these

It was his name on the bill and the account online still shows as his name. don't know where that leaves me legally.

So we can see, can we not, that his claim to "still feel soft and tender toward you Wisey" was contingent upon my continuing to behave like the compliant but abandoned wifey.

still thinking of phoning his parents.

someone tell me it's a bad, bad idea or i might just do it!

Yes, oh yes, yes, yes!!!!!!!!!!

How did you do that, is there something wrong with my mousey thingy or what?