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"But we took you to Statley Homes" Dysfunctional Families Thread

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Snowdropfairy · 31/03/2011 14:04

Forerunning threads:
December 2007
March 2008
August 2008
February 2009
May 2009
January 2010
April 2010
August 2010
November 2010

Please check later posts in this thread for links & quotes. The main thing is: "they did do it to you" - and you can recover.

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Snowdropfairy · 05/04/2011 21:36

My 2yo keeps coming up to me saying mummy and hugging me and it just makes me cry more.

I'm letting him down.

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Snowdropfairy · 05/04/2011 21:39

I think i would be better off dead and so would everyone else with out me in their lives.

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Humber · 05/04/2011 21:39

Sorry that was a cross post before. Hariboegg is right, balls to your inlaws. Are you still having cramps?

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Snowdropfairy · 05/04/2011 21:40

Yep Sad

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Snowdropfairy · 05/04/2011 21:41

Pass me a paper bag Grin

When will i feel better?

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Snowdropfairy · 05/04/2011 21:48

Sorry i will leave

Sorry if i have offended anyone

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Humber · 05/04/2011 21:51

no need to go snowdrop

RubberDuck · 05/04/2011 22:25

Snowdrop please don't go.

People would not be better off without you. This is hormones and other life crap talking. Please please please get some proper help - go to the GP, get some therapy sorted.

Thinking of you tonight.

ManicPanic · 05/04/2011 22:29

Have private messaged you Snowdrop XXXXX

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Snowdropfairy · 06/04/2011 08:33

I'm ok.

I have depression and i just got very low very fast.

I'm sorry i posted. I'm on meds, i will see MHN on the 18th and tell her what happen. As well as my HV and family support worker.

I just had big triggers, raging hormones, half meds and i just went very low very fast and i didn't see it.

My DH is great and helps. Its an illness and i will get better.

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Snowdropfairy · 06/04/2011 08:35

Also Cramps and spotting has stoped but so has the morning sickness. I will just have to wait and see.

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RubberDuck · 06/04/2011 08:36

Snowdrop - thanks for coming back and posting. Was worried about you :) Glad you've got some medical care in place.

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Snowdropfairy · 06/04/2011 08:39

I needed it Grin

It does not happen often and is getting better but last night was just a blip!

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Snowdropfairy · 06/04/2011 08:57

Sorry for scaring people

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StickThemWithThePointyEnd · 06/04/2011 09:14

just a quick post with hugs for snowdrop.

I'm in slow labour, so will probably only be lurking for a while.

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Snowdropfairy · 06/04/2011 09:18

How meny weeks are you?

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Snowdropfairy · 06/04/2011 09:19

Congrats Smile

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StickThemWithThePointyEnd · 06/04/2011 11:38

Hope you are feeling better, snowdrop.

podsquash · 06/04/2011 13:00

glad to see you a bit better, snowdrop. Take good care.

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Snowdropfairy · 06/04/2011 14:44

Thanks

I just feel embarrassed now. I have to remind myself that it is an illness and at least i'm getting treatment and getting it put right.

My mum never did.

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