Porn: Would you consider this as being unfaithful?

[BlueRuby]

Apologises for the language in advance but I'm hugely fucked off and drinking wine.

Have had issues with DH's porn use before. I have tonight found out (he has admitted it) that he has been on a website where you pay woman to do sexual things on the web cam whilst he watches and wanks. basically he has been having internet sex with a fucking prostitute!!!

I am so fucking mad that I swear I'm going to smash something in a minute.

I think he has been unfaithful, he has had a sexual interaction with another woman. He doesn't see it like that.

Mouseface- ok - if ever you fancy meeting up maybe we could sort something out and meet halfway? Do you know of any local meetups halfway between us?

Nope PaulW

I am the full time carer of my SN DS so today is the first day in almost two years that we have done something normal.

He had his very first Play and Stay (playgroup) session locally and loved it.

So I'm not the best person to ask about events, maybe we should both join MN local for Shropshire?

Ok Mouseface- that sounds like a good idea.
Really glad to hear that the play and stay session was a success.

PWF...have you got a tenner towards my new keyboard fund ?

PAFPM-I could raid the kiddies piggy bank!!!! How much are you hoping to raise- because i think there is about £3.20 in there, in loose change!!

aww, I couldn't raid the kiddies piggy bank

haven't they got a trust fund or summat ?

Trust Fund?? Yep- probably!! in fairness dont know - coz control freak stbxh has always sorted out anything financial- that will all be changing very soon- and if i find a spare pound or so i will donate it to your keyboard fund!!

btw, good luck with sorting things with stbxh....sounds like you are well rid

Cheers PAFPM- yep, i think that i will be well rid- but still dreading all of the shit that is going to come with it- telling the kids, dealing with access, missing them when they go to him, sorting out money, etc, etc- looking forward another 12 months- I guess that is something to focus on.

I feel for you

perhaps try posting on the lone parens topic ? They will have loads of practical tips for dealing with all that shit

parents

Have done already tbh- but have not had much response. I think i will try again. Thanks PAFPM.

great to hear your thoughts on single mums topic PeterAndre
so you split 'hem up and we are left with "dealing with all that shit"

Hi it's ruby with a name change. Not much to say but didn't want you all to think I'd disappeared.

Have asked dh to leave. But he is still here til he gets sorted. No family to stay with.

Feel like crap, can't be in the same room as him because quite honestly want to smash his face in. Can't even scream at him though because of kids. Have a toddler permanently attached to me.

Hi BettysBabies- good to hear from you- was starting to wonder where you had gone....

Good for you that you have asked him to leave- that is the hardest bit of all. My stbxh is still here and i told him at Christmas that i wanted him to go- so i know how horrible it is. I also find it impossible being in the same room as him- and, like you, i want to smash his face in- i am not a violent woman but just looking at him makes my blood boil.

Just keep on focussing on you and the kids and how life will be so much better once he has gone- i am here if you need me- I can feel your pain because i am going through it myself- if we lived abit closer we could reach out to each other- but, nevertheless, use this forum as support- and if you want to om me please feel free.

Thinking of you and sending you a big hug. xx

Ooops, i meant pm me!!