Ah, Ilove, do look at the original post.
I don't know what to do.
Shall I tell him I am pregnant?
I don't know what to do was clearly structured in a way to elicit responses to her situation.
The shall I tell him I am pregnant seemed a seperate issue.
Do get over yourself.
No one is having a go a young mums.
People were asked what should she do as she is pregnant by some one she doesn't even like.
A variety of experiences and options were posted. One option included the very sensisible in many circumstances option of abortion.
Cue babykilling cries, and OP stating she doesn't beleive in abortion so thats not an issue. Took a long time for her to get around to telling us that however.
Do not ask for advice if you do not want to get it. And its fantastically rude to not even acknowledge that posters have taken time and energy to discuss her situation and share their own experiences in order to help her make a more informed decision about her life.
Clearly OP does NOT want advice from other women, young and old, who have lived through this kind of thing and actually do know how hard it is.
Instead she is sticking her fingers in her ears and going la la la la! It'll all be fine.
So her only question, we discover, is should she tell her boyfriend? Which sort of beggers belief....
TBH, this is all a biit under the bridge for me. the OP seems to have no feelings at all apart from LOL!
And actually, she has no idea how hard it is to raise a child by yourself, because she has never done it. She lives with her parents. A very different ballgame.
So yes, people are cross, not because she is young and a mum, not because she is pregnant (we just thinks she's daft for for that) but because her towering naivity and inability to actually take on board anything apart from posts that support her childish and egocentric desire to have another baby when she can barely support the one she has.
She's not little Bo Beep, for gods sake, she is an adult now and has a child to consider. Merrily sprogging away jbecause of some sentimental "don't beleive in abortion" mantra, and all she has to wonder about is whether to tell the cheating shite she so carefully chose as a life partner he is going to have yet another child.
Marvellous. Its called taking the piss.